I have a class with the guy I'm crushin' on. We talk a lot, but he also talks a bit to this girl whom is the complete opposite of me. She is extremely stuck up - she feels her intelligence level is much higher than anyone elses and will not hesitate to call someone stupid. She is constantly trying to impress him which tells me she likes him. I honestly can say that even if I had zero feelings for this kid - these two would be terrible match. He's sarcastic, laid back, and generally a good person, much like I am... and I know I find her to be very annoying.
So here is the question - a friend of mine suggested he speaks to her in class so well and so comfortably (as oppose to me - he is very friendly with me but slightly awkward and fidgity. We joke around like crazy) because she is of no threat. He simply speaks to her more because it's easier, but, he may like me, thus making it harder to speak with me. Does this sound possible?
Your friend's idea could be a possibility, but you have to look at it from another end. He obviously finds something good about her or else he wouldn't talk to her. Maybe you are just seeing the "bad" side of her because you are jealous. Look at how he talks to other people, does he single you out or act differently towards you? Just continue to be yourself and don't let this girl get to you. Your jealousy of her could start to show, and turn the guy off.
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