So, I have decided to go with the something new! But this past weekend we had a party they we went to at the new guys house, and I got quite drunk! My ex called me, and was just saying a lot of mean things to me, and I started crying... Of course I didn't tell the new one that it was my ex that made me cry. But it was cute he sat there and comforted me all night! Was it wrong that I didn't tell him? And if I do decide to tell him is it going to ruin my chance?
If he didn't ask, then he didn't need to know. He seems like a nice person. Tell him the truth if he asks, but otherwise, you might want to wait. If your ex still has that amount of control over your emotions, it's a sign that your previous relationship isn't completely over.
Still, the fact that you were sad meant that you displayed emotional openness and vulnerability--very typically feminine traits. A lot of guys enjoy filling the role of comforter. In all likelihood, the incident brought the two of you closer together.
It really depends on the guy....if you were going out with a guy that wanted a girl with a strong character, then it would ruin your chances if you tell him your ex made you cry; after all, if its your and he is calling you names, you can easily hang up on him, and matter of fact, you shouldn't even consider what he has to say....
If you have a guy that doesn't care much about having a strong character, then it shouldn't matter. However, if you do tell him, I would be ready to answer as to why an ex is still having an impact on you.
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