Ok so is it technically a friends with benefits relationship if he we text throughout the day, but he doesn't ask me to come over till like 10 pm, and we don't always have sex? Most of the time we just watch a movie and go to sleep. I stay over there almost every night lately and I get up and go to work from there. I already asked about this guy once and his behavior hints towards him liking me as more but he keeps saying he isn't looking for more. We had a huge blowout like 2 weeks ago b/c he sent me a text that said "you're seeing other people?" - I'm not seeing anyone else but I wasn't even aware we were "seeing" each other - and it just escalated from there. He apologized like 2 days later, but he said things couldn't be the way they were before our fight b/c he's not a sharing fellow. wtf?! but we had sex last night for the first time since our fight. wut do you think his intentions are?
Sorry about the repeat..With me I do that as a way to check up on her to see what she is truly feeling by her reaction...it could just be plan insecurity in either case as long as you haven't done anything wrong you shouldn't worry about it. - 8 months ago
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I know I did nothing wrong and I think he kinda knows that too. but y pick a fight with me over something like that if he's been telling me we're just friends? - 8 months ago
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Yeah if he isn't ready for a relationship that something is wrong....why stay? - 8 months ago
The current relationship I am in now started off this way, and to be really honest it takes a lot to make it when you start out like this (but not in all cases). He was getting jealous and mad, but constantly saying that he didn't want a relationship. Finally I got sick of hearing it and told him that he could be with me or not, it turned out that he had feelings. Its hard to tell what his intentions are he might just be wanting to be "friends", but by getting jealous it seems that he might have feelings only time will tell and that's up to you.
Well I had this happen before.. It is pretty much just wanting a little buddy.. Who knows what the guy thinks about you but he definitely knows he can get away with just having you over for sex, cuddling, and late night convo's. Later on you'll find that he wants his cake and to eat it too. But without the whole your my girlfriend status. Until you say you've met someone else or he met someone else everything will be fine. Until then watch out for his jealous actions. Men want to control without being controlled.
He said he doesn't want to share you... meaning he doesn't want you to be with other guys... meaning that he sees you as "his".... but does he have other girls? You need to sit down and talk with him.
Personally, I'm totally against the idea of friends with benefits because it seems wrong to me... (but that's just my opinion).
Yea I don't like it either, but I like him a lot and it feels like any thing is better than nothing at this point. sounds pathetic I know. :-/ - 8 months ago
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Yeah, that's pretty pathetic to be honest. At this point if he won't come out with what he wants after you've talked to him you need to leave him. If he thinks he owns you, but doesn't care about you then you need to stop wasting your time with him. - 8 months ago
Even if a guy is your fwb, they still don't want to think about some other guy being "with you" because they don't wanna think about their "junk" mixing with some other guys "junk". sounds strange and stupid but they just don't like the thought. - 8 months ago
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True... but fwb usually means there aren't any strings attached. So unless you guys are "officially seeing each other" then he shouldn't be so possessive. Either way I think you should get out of this situation. - 8 months ago
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