Ok so there is this girl and me, we are close together. Had a "relationship" but it went on and off several times already.
After a troubled week when she needed time for her own. It started again on Monday. I had to work late and she called me while knowing I was still working. Talking about a lot of nothing and something. We hung up and not even 5minutes later I received a text message saying "i actually miss you a little bit". Then a bit later another one saying "do you still love me" again a bit later "do you still think I am the love of your life" later "know that you are always my best friend"
Ok so the last one is a complete turnaround in my opinion. I really want to know what to think from this because it tearing me apart.
It sounds like she doesn't know what she wants for herself. I would definitely try to talk with her and ask her what she wants, because it sounds like she is trying to make up her mind based on what she thinks you want and neither of you know what the other wants. If she decides to move on, then she is trying to say that she still wants your friendship.
Ok so a small update actually, I agree with what you say she possibly/probably does not know what she wants. But do just friends lay on bed under the sheets and cuddle with each other(sometimes make it a little bit more intimate(no sex))? - 8 months ago
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No, you sound more than just friends, but once again, she seems unsure of whether or not she wants to keep working on a relationship. She is using you for emotional support still while she makes up her mind. Try to show her you won't wait around forever - 8 months ago
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I asked her what I should think of the things she does and says. and if she had feelings for me,she said she did, but at the moment they are not big enough for a real relationship and it was not because of me. - 8 months ago
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