Okay so on Friday morning I was at school. I went to go see my friend Alex (girl) and then I was like talking to her for a good 5 mins. I have about 15 to 20 mins before the class bell rings. Then I was like hey Alex I got to go. If I don't come back It's because I'm with Jesse (boy). And now me and Jesse are pretty good friends. We talk a lot, I tell him everything. So as I walked up the stairs to go meet and hang out with him every morning. He looked kind of upset. I asked him like 3 times what was wrong. He finally told me that this kid Jake (Jesse and Jake had been fighting for awhile) and Jesse were fine now. I was like oh cool. Then he told me that Jake said I told him that Jesse was having sex with his girlfriend Emily. Which I did not. Then we got pissed off at each other and stopped talking for a good 10-12 hours. Then I finally gave in and called Jesse. We worked things out we're fine now. I tried to explain to Jesse why I would never say such a thing to Jake. He still didn't believe me. I've tried everything to get him to believe me. I mean why would I talk about someone behind their back when they know almost everything about me? That's like giving a monkey a loaded gun! I even said that to him. And at the time I thought he had finally saw I was right. Then last night I called Jesse to talk ya know. Then I was Like who do you believe more. So when push came to shove he told me Jake. Because more people backed him up! There are only one of Jakes friends that could've heard the convo and lied to Jesse that day and backed Jake up. I just don't know what to do anymore. I'm so close to just not being friends with Jesse anymore. How do I get him to believe me. I've tried EVERYTHING.
Try telling him in a calm, gentle way (because screaming will just give you a sore throat) that you can not continue being friends with someone who doesn't trust you. Tell him that you shouldn't try your hardest to convince "your best friends" because "best friends" should trust each other. Tell him, if telling the absolute truth can't convince even a bit then maybe jake (who has been fighting with him for a while now) should be his best friend, since he trust him more. If the truth can't convince, should you lie then? Don't think so.
Get them in the same area and confront Jake in front of Jesse. That would prove 2 things. 1) Jake is a liar if he comes clean
2) That proves to Jesse you would confront the liar in front of him and if you did it why would you take that risk to get them together and look stupid.
Ok, so if you have told him that you didn't say anything like that, and he doesn't believe you maybe he wasn't such a good friend after all. Maybe you should try talking to him again, but if he hasn't believed you after all of you efforts you might just have to accept the fact that he is never going to believe you. Possibly that your friendship doesn't mean that much to him, and it's better off that you stop talking to him. Good Luck
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
Dinner at some where like TGI Fridays or Buffalo Wild Wings. A pair of my aberbrcombie jeans and maybe a slim t-shirt or dress shirt from express. With so Nike Air Max or dress shoes. Maybe a invite to the house to watch a movie if night a hug or kiss. But always tell them to call me if they have to drive 40 mins or more so to see if they got home ok.
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
What I do for fun. What kind of job I got and what I do day to day. And some of my important goals in life.
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When: 6 months ago
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