i was dating this guy for 5 months back in february I ended things with him because he said he didn't want a relationship. well last week I texted him for his bday after having no contact for 3 months. well we made plans to see a movie on friday which ended up not happening because he fell asleep and to be honest I wasn't ready to hang out with him yet. well friday night he texts me when he wakes up and ask to come see him. it was 2am. when I got there we rarely talked(I guess things felt awkard) he asked me if I had a boyfriend and I said no and he said he didn't have a gf. well we had sex and when we were done we just laid there staring into each others eyes not saying nothing.(This has never happened while were dating) shortly after that I said I was leaving and he asked me to lay down for while. I stayed for 10 more minutes, got up and got dressed. Wellll...he texted me last night "whats up" and I asked him "what he was doing" and he never responded. I texted him 2 times after that and still nothing. Now I'm regretting sleeping with him because I still like him and want a relationship. What can I do to get him to want the same? or should I just completely let it go?
Well, first make sure you want a relationship because of things you like about him and not just because you two recently had sex. Having sex is sooo emotional and can leave you feeling a deep desire for a person. But you might not really want something more with this person.
I suggest seeing where is mind frame is. He interested in you but make sure you're not just a late night buddy to lay with. Ask him how he really feels about you and could he see something more with you two. IF he is iffy there is no point in trying to make something work.
Yeah I wanted the relationship back when we were dating but he didn't and that's why I ended it. but I think this time the sex was more emotional because it left me regretting it. I want to ask him how he feels but I don't want him to think I'm trying to push him into a relationship again like b4. I think that by having sex with him b4 talking this time leaves me in the position where he may not be interested in pursuing anything with me especially since he hasn't responded back to any of my text - 10 months ago
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