I have a female friend, we have always liked each other and I think we have always wanted to be more than friends. I went away for some time and when I came back we started talking again. I asked her out on a date, a real date, she said absolutely.
i started to see her at her work and one night we left together and ended up sleeping together. She also has a lot of personal problems that just came up, but she doesn't hardly talk to me now, I asked her if it was a one time only thing, she looked really pissed, so I left it alone. I have asked her if we will ever go out she says yes, after she finds a place to live, I don't know what this has to do with going on a date?
She seems to have time for her her male friends, which I am not jealous, I just feel like she was more attentive to me before we slept together. This girl works in a club , so did I for a long time. I think if she didn't want to date she would say. She usually tells someone exactly what's on her mind. I don't want to push her away, but I don't want her to think I will wait forever while she is acting this way. Because men and women have different meaning for signals I don't want to mistake hers. She is really sweet, most times, but by not hardly speaking to me she is making me feel like I did something wrong, and it was her that initiated the sex.
It sounds like commitment and personal issues. The only thing I can really come up with is just letting her know that you were her friend first, and whatever kind of intimate relationship after (I don't know what to label it as?). But if she makes time for her other friends, then that may be on a comforting, consoling type level, and the time that she sees spending with you may be seen as time spent doing things that are more intimate, and she may be at a time in her life where a little fun is good, but to mix emotions and personal problems would only push her stress level closer to it's limits. So, trying to be her friend for now and just listening to what she has to say may be best. And it sounds like she likes you, but needs to figure out what priorities would best suit her for a commitment. She sounds honest and upfront with you, but doesn't want you to develop an expectation that she can't follow through on right now.
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