I am tormented with these feelings, I don't know if I'll keep hanging with him even though my love for him lessen. I think he is some kind of a guy that is very straight forward. What he wants he will insists and if I give some instances that I've changed he will give up. He doesn't follow much of what I want him to do to save our relationship.
Update: The new already give up because he knows I still love him. Nut I know to myself I will be better person when I'm with him.
9 months ago
Look, right now you are asking a question about your ex, you still love him. Love > Crush. A third, a second, a fourth, whatever! He needs a chance, I am back with my girlfriend for the third time and I am so happy right now. All the bad memories you had with him will fade away, good memories stay forever. When your a lot older, your not gonna remember, o yeah my ex called me a bitch once, no your gonna remember your amazing first date, and your anniversary, and all the good things. I don't know how else I can convince you to take him back. If your LOVE him, then LOVE him.
Listen, it sounds like you like the new guy too. You really need to get some distance from both of them right now so that you have time to heal. I'm thinking things aren't salvageable with your old guy. If the new guy understands, then he'll back off but still be there for you when you need him. When you feel ready to start a relationship again, let him know.
The new guy told me he will give me a chance to move-on from what happened and he will be my friend,its ok with him even when were only friends. - 9 months ago
Give him a chance, but if it's not working out then leave. No point staying in a loveless relationship. The torment is natural, trust me, but you gotta move on. It may be a case where you two are just incompatible, and if that's the case then there's someone better waiting out there for you.
But its not his second chance, it's actually third time. I always forgive him but now I don't know because I'm confused if I like the new guy or not. - 9 months ago
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Ok. Lets face the truth. I love him. I really do. But if he only hurting me then why, why? What is his intention to me. - 8 months ago
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