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I still love my ex but...

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crazy4her (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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I still love my ex but I've been breaking up with her EVERY time we get back together. And now as we speak I am dating another girl but I still love her. I don't know what to do. Her friends hate me so I can't ask them for help. They do not want her with me. Help me out if you can. I love this girl with my life and I can't afford to lose her forever.

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honey8533 (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
I'm in the same situation with my ex boyfriend. Everytime we get back together we break up. We actually just broke up like 2 days ago. And it's me that always has to ask him back because I don't want to lose him. I think that you could tell her how you feel. See if she would be willing to try again and if she does than just take things slow. Hang out for a couple days during the week and on weekends and this will still give you guys your own time to do stuff with friends. I hope all the best to you.
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Avril-Lavigne
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Avril-Lavigne (Age:Under 18)      When: More than a year ago
Okay, sounds like you need a girl's help. I'm just going to say that you need to tell her how you really feel. Maybe then she will forgive you and you two could go out again but if you brake-up with her this time. She's going to call it quits forever.
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sabjo82 (Age:25 to 29)      When: More than a year ago
Sounds to me like you have some issues with getting close. You are letting your fears get the best of you. First get rid of the girlfriend, she is just filling your void for this other girl you love. Call your ex. Reassure her that it is over with the other girl. Ask her to just listen to what you have to say and if she doesn't want to give you the time, except it and give her space. You have hurt her too. You are not the only one feeling the way you do. She wants you back I am sure but, doesn't want to risk it again. She doesn't want to open up an give you a chance to hurt her again. Allow yourself to be vulnerable with her. If you truly love her you can do this. Let her see what she hasn't. Tell her that you were trying fill the empty place that you felt with this other girl. You realize you were wrong in doing this and you want things to change with her. Don't break up with her every time there is a confrontation. Handle it like a grown up. You can't have a relationship without discussing the problems.
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AnnieMurphy (Age:Under 18)      When: More than a year ago
Well if you keep on breaking up with her then you should just remain good friends but I have a question for you. Why do you keep on breaking up with her? I would be able to help you much more if you send me a message telling me why you break up with her every time you date!
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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)      When: More than a year ago
I have the same problem. Just tell her how you feel, take a chance she probably deals the same way, remember you can never stop loving a person!
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roastedasian367
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roastedasian367 (Age:18 to 24)      When: More than a year ago
I understand where you're coming from. I've broken up with my boyfriend 5 times now, and it just seems like a game nowadays. I would say this time around stick to the relationship if you really think it's worth it, because the next time you break up with her, she'll probably be ready to move on and you'll regret losing her.
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crazyoverhim (Age:Under 18)      When: More than a year ago
I'm in the same situation but on the other side of it. I'm the girl that he keeps breaking up with. My idea is that you need to tell her NOW and stop playing with her heart before it's too late and she is gone.
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crazngirl
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crazngirl (Age:Under 18)      When: More than a year ago
Who cares if she loves you too then she wouldn't care how bad her friends hate you and it's okay to love her but just let things be and you'll have her to yourself one day.
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cRaZyBeAuTiFuL91
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cRaZyBeAuTiFuL91 (Age:Under 18)      When: More than a year ago
You should talk to her about the things that you break up with her for and see if she can do something about them. You need to be with her instead of the other girl if you really love her.
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