A few months ago. Make that 6 months ago I met this amazing guy who I had just about everything in common with. I knew he had a girlfriend so I just was his friend. We met up at the first dance of the year and went on a walk (rumours were that we were making out but not true) we just talked and shared interests.
A few days later on a Tuesday he told me he broke up with his girlfriend and asked me out, I asked him if he was sure he wanted to so fast and he said yes, so I said yeah. After school on aim he asked me if I would wait maybe a week because of a lot of drama and he wanted some thing to clear up so I told him I would wait as long as he wanted. The whole week he'd been sort of ignoring me so on Friday on aim I asked him why he had been ignoring me, and he told me that we shouldn't be in a relationship.
I know this isn't really an ex or break up story according to my friends I mostly do that because I just wanted to be able to say that something happened really, is it wrong? My friend always tells me whenever I say "my ex," you never went out with him it was nothing and it just pains me to hear those words.
I know it's been half a year but it feels like just a few weeks ago, he was the first guy to really ask me out so is it wrong so consider him an ex? And if not should I just give up and try to forget or what?
I'm really lost because I know he's pretty much an asshole but there's just something about him that only I see and it's like he's a bad habit that I can't shake off no matter how hard I try.
He's not a true ex, but still feels horrible when someone does that kind of crap. Just forget about it babe. He sounds like he isn't worth the trouble of worrying about the subject anyways
I hate that. He knew to take it slow and knew how you felt. He isn't an ex but he still hurt you. You are heart broken and you still like him. Just hang out with your friends and have fun. He will realize what he lost in the long run.
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 9 months ago
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