I'm 20. my ex and I were friends from the last 5 years. we were together as a couple for about a year. we were in a long distance relationship. He left me 1 month back because I refused to have sex with him. he says "i outgrew my feelings for you, my feelings are not that intense anymore" etc etc.
Now I miss him so much and want him back. I don't know what to do. because he was the best guy a girl could ever find. He changed my life, I was so depressed for so many years but he changed everything, I was so happy with him. I don't know why did he leave me. I feel I can never be happy again and never find the right guy. what do I do? How can I get him back?
well first off why would you want to go back with him if he broke up with you because you wouldn't have sex with him? That's crazy, if that's all he wanted then chances are they still are. And second he may be sweet and all and changed your life and everything but if you guys aren't ment to be together then your not. STOP feeling like you can never be happy again because if you think that way then you won't and don't give up.
I would not try to get him back. If you are not having sex because you want to wait until you are married, then he should either marry you. or not expect sex. If he is demanding sex and you are not interested, then you are not compatible and other things in your relationship will be a mismatch as well.
If you are not a virgin and have not slept with him after being together for a year, then I say again, you guys are not a match.
I would guess that the relationship lasted for a year because you were not together all the time. You would have found out that you guys were not meant to be together for life sooner if not for the distance.
You are feeling real pain now, but time will fix that. You should consider the growth you experienced while you were together and know that life has more lessons to teach you and there are other people on your path ahead who you will enjoy knowing and loving. Embrace the future, put a smile on your face, and go find the next adventure.
You are welcome, and I am sorry that you have not had more responses. It makes it hard to choose a "best answer' when there are only two to choose from.
So how are you feeling a month later? - 3 months ago
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Opps.. you did choose, good girl. :-) - 3 months ago
Well, to me it sounds like he can't be that great if he left you just for sex. But I don't know him. The thing I would do is try my hardest to get over him. And the love of your life WILL come. You just have to be patient. Try to have some fun while you wait:) go out and party with friends. Meet new guys. And don't sweat it, you'll be twice as happy as you were with him.
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