When I was in ninth grade I met a really great guy we were friends for a year then he dumped me about a year later but I still like him how can I get over him
I think the hardest part for us girls is our need to hold on to what we had. You had felling for this guy for like a year and can't let go of the memories and relationship that was made. I wouldn't want to either, but you have to move you, and it takes a long time. My last boyfriend took like 2 years to get over. I finally knew it was over between us when I was able to hear someone mention his name or talk about him without feeling lost or lonely. One way I got over the break-up was that I surrounded myself with people who love me and care about me, when I thought about him I only focused on the good memories that will stay with me forever even though I didn't have him anymore. I will never forget him and neither will you and your guy but you won't want too. The special moments you shared will stay with you forever and in your heart. Everyone deals with their own ways of coping with a situation that hurts us and maybe your way will be just slowly moving on piece by piece, and in the end you will only be left with the memories.
Find a new guy to like. Try not to talk to him for a while. I'm in the same bat except I didn't date the guy. I'm trying really hard to get over him and nothing seems to work. I hope th best luck for you and I hope you do get over him. Also to help you to get over him you could think of the bad things about him so you won't like him anymore
The best way to get over a guy is to think rationally, rather than emotionally. Reflect to yourself about the reasons why you two didn't work out, and how in the long run, it'll benefit the both of you.
Remember, you're still young, and you will meet more guys along the way. =) It's his loss, not yours.