Is it possible not to forget a guy ?

I was in a relationship for 4 years. She wanted to break up with me for several months because she apparently lost her "spark" for me. She finally did. I am completely heartbroken. I am a good looking guy, good job, good friends, and treated her amazingly. She is going to meet an asshole, she is going to be treated like sh*t. It's almost like she wants it. Good guys are very hard to find. Don't get caught up in wanting someone "better", because the best thing you could ever have might be right in front of your eyes. I would have died for this girl with no regrets, she was the love of my life. My whole world.

You will forget him. You will find someone that is a better fit for you. It sounds like you loved the fact that you had a boyfriend, and not your actual boyfriend. That's very common for 18-22 year old females. You will get over him. Spend time with your friends and family and don't talk to him. His memory will fade.

yes

and yes trust me your next boyfriend will be much much better

Eventually you will forget him. With time you'll find someone else or maybe your ex will realize how much he loved you and will try to get you back. Its all just a matter of time. For now just live your life and go out and meet new people, see what else is out there. Trust me I know its hard, I'm going through this now and I can honestly tell you that the more you go out with your friends and keep yourself busy the less you think of the guy and the better you feel.

its like when your dog dies, it's horrible, but by getting another dog your allowing yourself to move on some.
im not saying you'll erase the guy, but how will you ever know what you want if you just sit there, get up and go after what you want.

Yep. I was in a relationship for 4 years and even now, almost 2 years after, I stil think about him from time to time. But, its more about the good times we had together, not necessarily missing him. I was exactly like you too.. wanted to break up when I was with him but once it finally happened, it scared the crap out of me that I would nevr be able to love someone else. It def. takes time, but it will happen.

You may never forget him but you can get to a place of peace when it comes to him. I had a guy that I was involved with for 6 years. He was terrible for me but I still loved him. I finally got away from him and yes he pops into my head every now and again but not in a way that is in affection or adoration. He's part of my past but instead of looking at him full of love I look at him with an understanding that I learned a lot from the situation with him. It takes time.