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My ex boyfriend wants to catch up but doesn't want his girlfriend to know!?

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IN_LOVE (Age:18 to 24)     When: 11 months ago
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My ex and I were together for almost three months! and I cheated on him so he broke up with me he has a girlfriend now and has been with her since a month after we broke up they have been together for at least 6months now! My ex had a necklace of mine and he kept saying he lost it but now he has emailed me telling me he has found it and we should catch up! we didn't get along before because his girlfriend didn't want my ex and I to be friends! so he stopped talking to me and now he said he doesn't see any harm in talking to me because she still talks to her ex who she was with for 2yrs! and now when he emails me he is talking about the things in the past like the good stuff we used to do together and he emailed me saying not to write it on his Facebook cos he doesn't want his girlfriend to know because she like to stir things up even for him! does anyone know what this means? is there a chance for us to still get back together? please everyone do share your opinions! thanks..


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  • white_wizard
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    11 months ago
    There is every chance he wants to get back together with you. He probably is tired of his current girl because she's talking with her ex so he feels free to do the same.

    But be wary.. he's hedging his bets. He's testing the waters to see if you'll take him back which is why he's trying to keep his current girl from finding out.

    Last note... you may want to consider very hard whether you want to risk it. He may be tired of his current girl and might want to get with you just to pass the time until he finds something else. I've seen this happen before. You cheated on him and that's a hard thing to forgive. How much do you think he will trust you or feel like he can do it to you when the next better thing comes along. He's with someone right now he that he obviously either doesn't want to be with and won't work to fix his current relationship. What's to stop him from doing it to you? After all, you are the one who cheated on him right?

    It's a delicate balance. My suggestion is be up front and if you want to be his friend then fine, but don't get back into a relationship with him. It will probably lead to disaster. If you really have to get back together with him MAKE SURE YOU TELL HIM that he has to break up with his current girlfriend.

    Good luck with you decision.
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    11 months ago
    Hes a dump ass. why I would take the time to talk to someone cheated on me in the first place.
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    11 months ago
    if he doesn't want his ex to know he's probably up to no good. I think he still is into you and that's why he doesn't want her to know. if it was no big deal then he would just tell her. her talking to her ex of 2 years apparently isn't a big deal since he knows about it and isn't hiding it. I think you have a good chance of maybe getting back together but I feel sorry for his girlfriend, that's not really fair to her.
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  • prettty_panda123
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    11 months ago
    There may be a chance becasue the girlfriend is stirring some trouble but then again he can't trust you so if make it then yeah but if not it''s not looking to good.
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