This guy and I had feelings for each other for about 3 years, we dated once and I ended up finding someone else who I had stronger feelings for and he was upset. Then a couple years later we started dating again and we both weren't sure so we both started seeing other people. I'm not seeing anyone anymore and he's "hooking up with someone" but I don't think he likes her much anymore. Its been 3 months since weve ended it but now I see him places and he'll grab me and give me a huge smile and that's what made me fall for him all over, then I went out to the club the other day and he kept dancing near me and staring at me then he came near my friend and looked at me and was messing around dancing with my friend and I was a complete bitch and just turned my head and pretended he wasn't there. I think its just a defense mechanism for me because I was more hurt when we ended it the last time. Could he possibly be trying to communicate with me? Should I tell him I miss him or try to start a conversation with him and try to get into the convo about us.
The only way you will ever know what he is thinking is to ask him. He may just be playing games because his ego has been wounded & he wants to see if he can still get your attention or he may really still have feelings for you. I hate to say this though, but, it doesn't seem promising- you two have gone back & forth one to many times- if you both don't know what you want from each other by now than maybe it is time to truly move on & chalk this all up as memories from your past. Like I said before, you need to talk to him- then you will know which path to take. Take care!
Talk to him hun, communication is key! How is he supposed to know what's going on in that little head of yours if you don't speak up? If it was me I would find out if he's available first of course and then take it from there. Good LUCK!!
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