How can I get my ex-boyfriend back?

He sounds like a complete ass, who didn't care for you.
Just try to get over him (I know it will be hard.) I don't think you should try to win him back or break up with his current girlfriend. I mean, if you tried what if it didn't work out or he pulled the same stuff?

As seregiel stated, this will help you realize what kind of guys are good & bad for you. Take this situation as a learning experience dear.


I do have one question for you, how do you know he still has feelings for you?

Why would you want him back? Your whole life should be centered on YOUR interests and things and not on thinking a boyfriend is that only thing that makes you whole.

Have some more pride and respect - you need to own your life - and I would NOT pick up the phone for him. I would make sure to go hang out with friends - keep busy and behave as though you don't give a "F..." what he's up to. And you shouldn't. He's obviously not good enough for you so why are you pining for someone who blew you off?

Get over it. Move on and find someone better. Sorry if too harsh - but you have lots of time...

If you spent a year and a half together and he broke up with you just like that, no problems, no conversation, no warning at all, you do need to move on. It isn't about giving up but realizing what is good for you, and what is good is not being with someone who would treat you so callously as to cast you aside after such input of time. If he was able to do that, than he is NOT worth it no matter all of your feelings for him because he will do it again.

Love is what holds a relationship together, but it doesn't make it work. It stops working when the relationship isn't healthy for the people involved, and that is not a healthy one to be in. Everyone says love is blind. Well, love may be blind but it isn't deaf and you can't simply pretend faults don't exist. You have to recognize them, accept them, and work through them. But you can't work through him not wanting to be with you because he wants to be with a new person and him being a jerk.