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I want my ex back ( please read) =[

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Icecreaman (Age:18 to 24)     When: 2 months ago
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Ok, Last yr. I went with this girl for two months and she broke my heart super bad. We were separated for a month but I still loved her.

Later on, I went with this other girl after my ex. She was cute, smart, and she was very caring. I had feelings for her but deep down inside I still had feelings for my ex that hurt me. At the beginning of the yr., my ex was trying to make me like her again and it was working!

I was trying not to go back to my past and stay with the one I was with but my emotions took over. I didn't know what to do! So I made the stupidest mistake ever, getting back with my ex and hurting the one I was with. Later on my ex cheated on me and I was so hurt. It took me 5 months to get over her but after those five months I was started to feel guilty about hurting the girl after my ex.

I couldn't stop thinking about her and still can't! I really want her back because I actually didn't give us a chance. I still got feelings for her but my stupid ass had to break up with her for my ex. Can anyone help me? I also need a lot of female perspectives so please help me! Thank you.


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getyourexback      When: 24 days ago
This 2 tips might be helpful for you. This going to involve some exercises to help you through.

1. The first thing you should do is write down what you think caused the breakup. The chances are very good that you know exactly what this was. It might have been your fault, or it may have been your partner’s fault. In most cases, it was a combination of faults that caused the breakup. The point of this is not to pin the blame on just one person. Instead, it is to get things out in the open in your own mind so you can move past them.

Up until this point, I have spoken only about writing things down for your own benefit. That is because you are probably not ready to speak to your ex quite yet. Even if you feel that you are ready, you may not be truly ready. This could damage your relationship for good if you try to force things on them too early.

2. After you have thought about these very negative aspects, it is time to think about what was good when you were together. This exercise will help you determine if it is the right path to get back together with your ex. Make a list of all the memories you have together. These can be surprising memories, wonderful memories, or incredibly loving memories. Whatever you feel are the best moments of your relationship are what you should write down.

Hopefully, this exercise will help to bring a smile on your face. You’ve probably been frowning far too much lately, and it is time to feel good again. By bringing forth these happy memories, you are solidifying in your mind that getting back together is a good idea. These memories are what you have to fight for since you want to create new ones with the person you have lost.

Trying to get your ex back can be nerve-wracking, but by doing these two simple exercises you will be increasing your chances of success. You can check it out at link . If it is still not working, you just keep move on...another girl might be waiting for you - but just be careful, don't do the same mistake again.

Good Luck!
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lillady      When: 2 months ago
omg that's pretty sad..
But try to get her back! but to be honest the girl that you want back might be afraid to try again because you hurt her once she is going to think your going to do it again.
so show her that you made a mistake and that you want another chance
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