Does he still want and love me? What are the signs?

Why would you want him back he lies has a bad attitude isn't there for you. He doesn't have the balls to chase after you? Move on this guy is not worth your time. What do you love about every love story? Soon or later the guy chases after the girl does he not? He won't even try? Move on find a guy that is on your level learn how to be more selective.

If it were me, I'd go back. He still loves you. He wants a chance but his pride is so strong he can't bury it. You've got to make a choice. What's more important? Him or your pride? If the answer is your pride then let him go, if the answer is him, call him, talk to him and take him back.

If you do take him back take him aside after you get him back. Be calm but firm. Explain that you feel he is not paying you enough attention. Explain that it doesn't change you will leave again and this time you won't come back. Don't be threatening but let him know. If he doesn't know he can't help it. If the fact that he can't tell you himself yet still bothers you, the you gotta decide wether or not he is too proud for you. Problem is your just as proud, if you're not prepared to do it, how can you condem him?

you said it yourself "your both stubborn". you don't want to admit your wrong in any way, same goes for him.he told your friend in hopes that you would get the message and he wouldn't have to say it to you, or he was to embarrassed to say it to you directly because he is afraid of what you might say back to him. it is defiantly a sign he wants you back!
maybe he was trying to be like all the jerks who get all the girls. they always treat girls with disrespect and ignore them pretending there not there yet there the guys who get all the girls. maybe he thought that if he was like that you would want him and you would chase after him to come back to you? I don't know what his reasoning was behind it but he just couldn't tell you himself. he does want you back and still loves you if he really did say that.
i say give him another chance and if he screws it up then break up, but at least give the guy another chance, I'm sure if it was the other way round you would want another chance...am I right?

I don't think that people change overnight. But if you think that it would be different the second time around then go for it! I hope it does work out. Def let him know what your concerns are though before going back to him.

Hi,

Yes. He is sending you the I want you back message through the friend but why can't he just do that himself? You don't want the friend to get caught in the middle of he said she said stuff. I think the two of you love each other and should never let pride nor stubborness get in the way of love. I'd give it a little more time like about a week. If he doesn't make the move and make direct contact with you, then send a text note just saying, "Hi, how are you?" and take if from there. Good Luck. I think you both have a good chance.

I have been in the same EXACT postion where you are... I was with my boyfriend for 3 years and had surgery and he did the same exact things as yours... and I did EXACTLY what you did... got tired of it and walked away... never called... nothing... and he reacted just as yours... and it is what it is... EGO... AND PRIDE... they will NOT lower themselves to come back... NOR beg... and want you to make the move... it took my ex 2 months to make any contact... but they will rest assured... and from the signs... YES HE MOST DEFINATELY STILL LOVES YOU AND WANTS YOU AND IS THINKING ABOUT YOU... he took you for granted just as mine... and he needs time to realize just what he lost... just as mine did... so that when you guys get back together... you will be appreciated... and will NOT be lied to... and he WILL treat you with the LOVE, HONESTY, RESPECT YOU SO MUCH DESERVE... love is 50/50 and I am so sure that is not what it was or else it would not be what it is right now...just as how it was with my relationship... just give it time... and let him realize just what happened... what he lost... and how wonderful a girl he had... he wil be back... a new person... and will treat you how much you truly deserves... and in the meanwhile... LOVE YOU... AND TRUST IN YOU GUYS LOVE... HAVE PATIENCE... AND IT WILL ALL WORK OUT... YOU WILL SEE! ALL THE BEST! Trust me the wait is the HARDEST... BUT IT IS WELL WORTH THE WAIT! :)