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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 5 months ago
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I was with my boyfriend for three years. I know he loved me, but he messed up a lot during our relationship. Even as a marine, I was there for him and although I loved him, I wasn't ready for marriage because I was not sure. Since he is stationed in California, we have had problems due to long distance. He came to Florida during Labor Day to work things out and we were fine. I broke up with him two days later however because of so many problems I was facing and now, two weeks later, he has a girlfriend! They just met through MySpace and I am devastated. His mom says he is just using her to try and get over me but why? I still love him. I called him crying and crying and to me it seemed like he didn't care. I just don't understand how two weeks ago he wanted to get married and now he has another girl. Since then we have not spoken. I don't know what to do. can't let happen I know that we are meant to be together and I don't know what to do to get him back. Please hep.


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chamberri
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chamberri      When: 5 months ago
I was a soldier for three years in the Army and in Iraq I worked with Marines and I can co-sign that they are some crazy muthaf***as,not in a cool way. Like in a wifebeater,trigger happy,T-1000 kind of way. No offense but him joining the Marines should tell you to stay away, he probably thaught you made up on purpose just to break up. And if he is using a MySpace skeezer to get you mad than FUCK HIM! Move on,do you really wanna marry a guy like that,don't ever let any man pressure you in marriage! Especially a soldier,90% of the time it's for money and ass kissing benefits!
It may be hard but let him GO,you're still young! How are you gonna handle his deployments,so many marriages end that way! If you were crying your eyes out and he still wouldn't compromise then he is selfish and doesn't care PERIOD,that's the sure way you can tell if a man really cares! If you get back together don't expect happy days for long it'll happen again and you'll just be a statistic and he'll make you the bad guy in his sympathy stories to women in a lower class than you. BE STRONG AND LEAVE HIM,YOU'RE YOUNG AND IT'S NOT TOO LATE TO FIND ANOTHER GUY THAT WILL MARRY YOU WHEN YOU'RE READY.
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stercor      When: 5 months ago
He acts like a faithless jerk. In any case, he has no regard for your feelings.

Messed up? How? Lying, drugs, other women? Any one of these (especially lying) should be a show-stopper.

Wanted to get married? He's a reed in the wind, swaying along with the direction of the breeze.

I don't believe he's in love with you, even though you're truly in love with him..

Anything good to say? Please consider that you've found out what he's like before it is too late.

Ted
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quinner23x      When: 5 months ago
well I tink mayb ur mom is write he usein her to get over you but things didn sem to b workin before it is said you dnt know what you hav until it is gone let him no how you feel but dnt push him to hard every ting happens for a reason if it is meant 2 b it will b. gud look I feel for u.
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enlightenment
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enlightenment      When: 4 months ago
you dumped him! you broke his heart and he is looking to reapair it. Why would you break up with him if you thought you were meant to be?
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skerbs      When: 5 months ago
Ok. I am being truly honest with you when I write what I am about to write.
You don't know anything. How are you suppose to know that you guyes are meant to be together? It took someone saying that to me for me to realie that my Cheating boyfriend was no good. Point is, your young. You shouldn't be stressing about shyt like this. And just because you guyes were together for three years doesn't mean a damn thing. He obviously doesn't care about hwo you feel because he's with someone else, on top of that He messed up a lot in the relationship when you guyes were together. Now dont't get me wrong, He might love you but he doesn't care for you. On top of that, you guyes are long distance. In my opinion, that's a no no. Now, if you really want to be with this guy then be reasonable. Ask him point blank. Do you want to be with me? Its a yes or no question and you know how the other person feels in a short amount of time after you ask the question. Easy as that. If the answer is no then move on with your life. He is obviously moving on with his and he is not trying to get in touch with you. I hope this answer helps you out.
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