Ok so my boyfriend of 8 months just recently dumped me over the phone on a voicemail and it wasn't even him it was his friend!! the next day I went to school and he is dating a girl one year younger then me. I don't know what to do I've been trying to get over him but just can't seem to. I really love him and with out me knowing my friend walked up to him to ask if he still loved me and he said yes and that he misses me and broke up with his girlfriend because she was a slut lol. but what do I do? should I keep on loving him or just let him go???
Honestly, and I know I am going to loose major "man points" on this, but move on, maybe even just give it a break for a while until you find somebody you really care about and returns the feeling in a genuine way. If you go out right now and start dating right away, you'll meet the worst guys you'll probably ever meet.
Ummm in 3 words LET HIM GO, so he found out that his girlfriend ( that I'm assuming he left you for ) is a ''slut'' riiiggghhht. Remember this is the guy that broke up with you via voicemail, also note that this is the same guy who after 8 months let you walk into school, only 2 find out that he had a new girlfriend. This guy sound like a cocky, selfish jerk, and really a waste of time. He plays games now he loves you? No, you love him and 4 that very reason you should leave him alone before he hurts ur heart to the point of no return.
LET HIM GO! You deserve better than a boy who doesn't even have enough respect for you to break up with you in person, let alone have his friend do it on the phone. How can you trust a person like that? He got his friend to dump you out of the blue so he could hook up with another chick, and when it doesn't work out with her, now he wants you back? Think about your best friend being in that situation and what advice you would give her.
There is no possible excuse for this guy's atrocious behavior the last time around (dating another girl, and having a friend dump you via voice mail -- that's the most cowardly and caddish thing I've heard in a long time). And now look what he's saying about his latest ex-girlfriend -- calling her a slut. This guy obviously has no respect for women -- NONE. If you give this guy another chance, he'll break your heart again. Let him go, and say good riddance. There are plenty of guys out there who will treat you much better than this -- and that's what you deserve. Good luck!
Well logically, if he broke up with his girlfriend (making him single once more) and he loves you, why not date him again?
Even though I wouldn't recommend that. Why would you still want him? If a man were convicted of theft, would you leave your purse with him alone, after he has a proven record of disregard? No, the same reason you shouldn't trust your ex-boyfriend with your emotional investment. Chances are he will probably break your heart again.
Not to mention it would make me feel belittled to know that my boyfriend likes other chicks better than me. I say let him go!
Well for one thing he broke up with you and I know it hurt like you know what. But what I say about this is try to get over him I know it is very hard but he will do it again and it will hurt even more. I bet your a really nice girl and do cut yourself short. Because no one should go throw a heart brake. But in time you will get over him and I don't mean it will happen next week or so it my take months you never know. I was in love with this guy a year after we broke up and I keep telling my self you still loved me but he played mind game so just watch out be careful ok and good thing will happen when you let go. But do what you want it my turn out that he does love you I hope anyway. Take care think good thing.
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