There's this guy that I've known for a few years now & things started out on a positive note. I saw him as more of a potential friend & cool kinda guy despite being several years older than me. No instant attraction or chemistry from my end but things were still good between us. He, however, told me that he's sort of been in love with me "at 1st sight" (if there's such thing). Not sure how he means it or if its 100% sincere but that's what he said.
So we eventually developed this "thing" & at some point, it seemed to get pretty serious (more romantic than just platonic). Recently tho, things got weird/rough & we had a falling out cos he apparently kept a lot of important stuff hidden from me (lying which is unacceptable to me).
It made me realize that he isn't as good as he makes himself out to be & that he isn't worth it; I'm simply tired of & over it. Like I don't want to share my life with him...basically I'm past what we had & am content living my life w/o him. So I told him that & made it clear.
But now he keeps contacting me, mostly as if nothing happened & as if I didn't break it off with him at all. He literally sounds like everything is still the way it used to be, calling me pet names, asking me 'bout my day & my work, telling me all the details about his...I mean, what is that all about? Some sort of denial?
I would've guessed that if a girl clearly tells a guy NO and that IT'S OVER, I DON'T WANT TO KEEP IN TOUCH W/ YOU, that he'd leave her alone. Or maybe get angry/depressed/etc. THEN eventually leave her alone or something. But this is the reaction I'm getting from him. It's been a couple of months now. What's up with that? Guys?
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