OK so my boyfriend broke up with me, we tried the friends thing, then tried the friends with benefits thing (only talked about it) then just over a month ago he met someone else, he wanted to still be friends but I said I didn't know if I could. So I tried but I wanted to talk to him but just as things would work and we'd just talk normally he'd block me and ignore me so I'd stupidly do the thing of texting him loads to try and get him to talk, up until he deleted me on Facebook and msn. So I tried getting him to talk by texting him and he'd keep ignoring me. So 2 weeks ago I stopped it all because I realized what an idiot I was being. So I went through hell because I missed him so much and am still in love with him. Anyway I thought I'd never talk to him or see him again and was distraught, I was just starting to get used to it, met someone else and started flirting with him (only flirting and talking hasn't gone any further, oh and my ex had no idea about this guy we have none of the same friends etc so he couldn't know). So yesterday I got a msg saying someone has added you on msn, I automatically was hoping it was the new guy I'd been flirting with, to my shock it was my ex. He'd added me on msn yesterday after just 2 weeks of not saying a word. I've let him add me and added him but I've avoided msn. What could he want? He's got a new girlfriend and made it perfectly clear he didn't wanna talk (without saying anything) and now he's added me?! I don't know what I should do!
Trying to remain friends can become complicated, quickly. It only ever works if both people respect each other. Obviously, he hasn't been respecting you at all. Best advice would to just tell him the truth and break it off.
theres one answer ignore his asssssssssssssss, now he want to be frineds with you. dont make your self a joke for him keep moving on in your life and if I was you I would make it clare for his lazy asss, delete him and tell him not to contact you anymore at alllllllllll. good luck with the new guy.
Id say talk to him. Obviously you miss him and things are still unresolved. Until you know what's up its going to be hard to move on. But realize that he may not give you any answers at all. You might just get attitude. But I know that can help you get over him too because you'll get to see him in a whole new light. One that you may not even like.
Maybe, he's not happy with the new girl, or maybe he just relized that he was being an idiot and wantss to try beign friends, don't jump to conclusions until you know what's going on, don't get your hopes up cause if it's not what you think you could be setting yourself up for hurt
It is very difficult for you to be friends, since you admitted that you are still in love with him. Woulndt it hurt you to hear about his new gf? Why do you WANT to do that to yourself. You haven't really been broken up long enough for him to actually have a new gf! So there is a possiblility something was brewing before you guys split.
If you were getting used to the idea of being with out him in your life- very good idea btw. than go back to that! just block him on msn until you can muster the courage to hit that de-friend button- lol
you deserve better for yourself, and there are plenty of guys out the who want to treat you like a QUEEN! its up to you to decide if you want that or not.
he seems full of silly head games and it will only get worse. If you guys run into each other in a while when you have both moved and and mutually decide you would like to be PLATONIC friends and can handle that - than so be it!
wow, almost this same exact thing happened to me! Here's what I am doing- I don't know your situation, but keep telling yourself that you guys broke up for a reason, and that you deserve much better than being treated like this. He wants to have his cake and eat it too (meaning, he can have a new girlfriend and still keep you attached). My ex still has not contacted me since getting a new gf, but I decided that friends don't do that to one another, thus you aren't really friends. If he tried to contact me again, I'm going to tell him that we can't be friends, because friends don't just randomly stop talking to you (just like your ex). He's not being a friend to you, only prolonging the healing process. I would not try to be friends if he's going to act this way. Keep moving on like you've been doing, because you really don't need to deal with your ex's behavior.
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