well I dated this girl for after 4 months of her last boyfriend and we went out for 5 months and she breaks up with me and starts dating this other guy and she eventually breaks up with him as well I would go in depth but with this story but ... well I cut contact with her for a while and decide to call her up after about a month she seemed so excited to hear my voice and to be talking to me again and we became friends again. well while we were dating she tells me her first boyfriend never finished high school did drugs and beat her .. and she was engaged to him. well I still do love her and she tells me the same and if I had the chance to get back with her I would but we aren't going to. the thing that concerns me is due to her problems at home and getting ready to drop out of school she's started talking to the first boyfriend again the one that abused her. I heard that he's changed himself and he stopped doing drugs and really is a better person. regardless of hearing that he beat her and she tells me she's going to be moving in with him. like I care about this girl a lot and I don't want her to get hurt might not be together anymore but I still love her and I'm afraid when she's moves in with this guy that he's going to start going back to his old ways or the good part of him will fade away and the bad part will come out again I just don't want her to get hurt. and my question to you guys are is can people like him really change?
Update: and as sad as it she doesn't want to stay home cause her mom makes her do things for her... and tells her she can't go places... sometimes I understand she's an adult but you live under their roof their rules ya know but I cat stop her I just wish I could
13 days ago
Update: make her see what she's doing is so dumb and when she's goes thru with what she's doing she's going to end up more miserable than she say she already is
13 days ago
if you truly care aobut her well being, then make sure to keep in contact with her well after they move in toghether. People can change but he has a lot of changing to do. Just be there for her through it ALL.
This girl (still in school) does not seem the brightest spark. This guy won't change he'll probly say anything to get her back and then start dominering her again, that's how these people tick. Its in there nature to be in power over there partner fincally, physically and emotionally, that's why she is going back because he still has her under his control emotionally. I don't know what you can do to stop this if you confront her over this she'll probly get angry at you and cut off conntact with you (at least try to make her stay in school). Its a sticky situation, he want change losers like that rarely have the will power to change, you could still be her friend and if you see any marks on her go to the police if she wants to or not its not like there married...yet. But you have to think about yourself, watch out for her but that's it you have your life to live and you can't stop people from making stupid decisions, so don't forget to live your life too.
Sucky part is I don't live any where near her anymore which is why I'm worrying about her more than I should I just don't want her to get hurt or screw up her life she tells me she doesn't even want to stay in school and the dude has a court date for a maximum jail time of 17 years and she stills decides to go anyway cause his parents will take care of her - 13 days ago
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So this guy is going to jail for 17 years?!! What you kill someone? She must have the worse parents of all time, what the hell is wrong with them? THe still wants to go? As I said before you can't stop people making stupid dicisions. There is nothing you can do buddy I'm afraid. - 13 days ago
He is going to go back to his old ways because that was the way that he was taught to treat girls apparently. On the conscious level he might tell himself that he'll change but when push comes to shove or things get stressful I PROMISE YOU that he will hit her again. The problem with this is is some girls don't have enough sense to leave the guy and chances are she'll be with him for quite some time.
Its kinda like chickens when its raining, they're so stupid they'll just keep their mouth open while looking up until they drown. She'll stay in this abusive relationship until he goes to jail or she is beaten to death.
My ex totally changed. She used to be humble and nice. But now that people actually give her attention, she's become this uppity bitch. Took me 6 months to have sex with her, now it takes a guy 6 minutes (if that). So basically she went from this ugly little innocent sweet girl.. to a hot attention whore slut. yes, people change.
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