Has the guy moved on?

I think he is trying to get over you since you guys both decided it wasn't going to work out. You texting and e-mailing him is making it harder. I think he's having a real hard time but just doesn't want to show it. maybe he is taking time so you guys won't be strangers but still be friends after wards. Apparently he still has feelings for you, but probably he thinks that your over him and he thinks your just trying to push him away and comfort him and what not. Maybe he thinks your just trying to give him pity. there are many possibilities, but if you do still like him why not give it another shot? and sure as hell he and she can be friends.

He's p*ssed at you. You went cold on him he got hurt then mad, and said I'm tired of this crap and moved on. Basicly his short response show's anger. That he's upset with you. He's upset cause you went cold, and basicly told him I don't wana talk to you in his mind. Thus, now he's like fine ok have it your way. No problem. It goes back to that old saying of, be carefull what you wish for, "You just might get it!"

He moved on already, you should just move one too :)

He probably thinks it didn't work out with you the first time and is not into playing games. Girls/women like to toy with guys emotions at times. Seem to be always looking for signals about how a guy feels about them and will do stupid things to "see" how the guy feels about them. Guys usually know what is going on and for the most part are not into those...I would say he has moved on.

He has moved on and away, and she should too. It hurts when someone feels rejection, but holding onto the source is not a good way to make one feel better. Distance is the best solution.

Good Luck,
James

If it doesn't work, it doesn't work. Don't try to get him back because he says that he's fine with you not talking to him. I think that he's probably just trying to make it easier on you since you're broken up now, but don't spend too much time overanalyzing things. If he's done, he's already made up his mind. Now, in the future you'll probably be able to be friends, but I'd give it some time. Don't try to jump straight to it or you'll have compromising feelings, just wait until you're interested in someone else or it'll be hard to deal with being only friends. And just a suggestion, don't tell him things like you don't want to talk to him or you are going to delete his number/e-mail/etc. because you'll most likely regret it in the future.

Honey, you should just move on. Trust me. Been there...done that.

It's good that you two didn't end in a negative light, but giving him text messages or e-mails and phone calls just prolong YOUR hurt, and keep you in a state of sad limbo. You will ALWAYS stay in the past if you don't cut off ALL contact with him.

You guys broke up...it's finished. In fact, HE initiated the break-up (according to what you said), so that's even MORE reason to leave him be! If he wants to rekindle things with you in the future, then you can figure out what to do IF that happens. But honestly, I would forget about him because if he dumped you, how "into you" could he have really been? Find yourself a guy who really LOVES and appreciateds you and doesn't want to break up with you. He's out there somewhere!

In the meantime, maintain your dignity and continue to be the fabulous diva that you are! Don't humiliate yourself by continuing to keep contact with him. You need to show him that you're moving on too. I'm afraid that your continuing to try to contact him is only going to make him more and more frustrated with you. Because honestly, I think he's moved on (or is TRYING to move on) sweetie. :-/

You don't say how long the guy & girl were together, but a month isn't that long to "move on".

I think he's acting this way because he doesn't want to be the bad guy. His offer for the girl to vent was just said to be nice - I don't think really meant it. The same goes for the short text msgs. He doesn't want to be a jerk by not responding; but he also doesn't want to get deep into things and open up communication with the girl again.

I see it this way: he initiated the break up and he hasn't attempted communication with the girl -- she has. He's moved on.

She can't force him to be friends (the email about threatening to delete him as a friend proves that) . She needs to just leave him alone, so she can move on as well.

He may be having a difficult time with this the break up too. If it is understood that it isn't working, he may have moved on but that doesn't mean he has forgotten about you. The simple texts may be his way of moving on without continuing a conversation with you like what your used to when you were dating. Sometime guys that don't know what to say or have nothing to say keep the lines of communication to a minimum. "we all got different ways of doing things" is right. Everyone has different ways they deal with things. All I have to say is stop showing him your emotions and leave him be. If he can't figure things out on his own, you communicating or acting on emotions may be just another reminder that he did the right thing. But from my experience if the man leaves, he has put some thought into it and the best thing for us girls to do is walk away and cutt communication so he has that time to "miss you". Don't erase him as a friend(he may think you are trying to get a reaction from him, and what if it isn't the reaction you want? it may make you regret your actions...) If you do nothing at this point he will wonder... That is what will make him think about you and reflect on the relationship. Hope this helped. Best of luck to you...