Okay, iv had this boyfriend for about 5 month, we had a good relationship, we fought maybe 3 times through out our whole relationship, but towards the end, we were just like .. okay time to have some space. Turns out he only needed a WEEK of space, cause he got another girlfriend. I didn't really care at the time. They went out for about 2 weeks. Then spring break came along, and he started to hang out with the ex girlfriend before we went out, I hate her! But one night, we hooked up, and we talked about everything, About him only needing a week to get over me, about him hanging out with his ex ex ex girlfriend, about me hooking up with other guys. EVERYTHING. so the next day after we talked and kissed, and more kissing. we Hung out, it was weird, but we didn't want anyone to know about us kissing. SO we kept it a secret, whatever.
later that day we got into a little argument. and my friend told him how I called him an asshole. I didn't talk to him since, then 2 days ago he texted me saying, sorry for being an asshole. I miss him, but I feel like he's kind of using me? and, idk.. its different.. but how do I get him back?
Well, I think he's using you. Me and my girlfriend of one year broke up, because of her mom. She found out about some things that we probably shouldn't have been doing. Its really really hard, especially if the person you broke up with doesn't even act like the breakup affected them, and it seems like they just all of a sudden stopped caring. Its really hurtful, and It makes you feel like crap. Me and my ex still talk, and we still have our moments of fun, but she's got me wrapped around her finger and she knows how to get me to do anything. The best thing you can do is to just try to talk to him, or if you don't think that that will work, than you need to try to move on. God knows that its not going to be easy, and its going to seem like you'll never find anyone ever again, in your life, but you will. I've been single for about a good month now, and It seems like I'll never find another person to love me. But I just keep telling myself that I'm only 17 and its a big world. It sucks, and I know it sucks, but try to keep yourself busy, it really works. If you start to go out a lot it puts you around new people, you never know who you might meet.
Well this would be hard for you to understand but maybe he is using you. because to him you're the second choice. the person he wants to have fun but won't be serious.
he is not worth your time is hard but if you want to be with you have to let him come to u. be serious, when he ask question say short answer. when he called you, don't pick up call him the next day. don't make him pity u, make him know ur great with out him. ignoring someone will make them realized stuff they will come to u. life is a journey not a destination.
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