How do you know when you are truly over someone?

Well, I think that if you see her again and you're no longer mad, hurt, or revengeful (however you feel) then you're over her, especially if you can speak to her and smile. I experienced a situation similar to this one with my ex. I thought I was over him until I saw him about 3 weeks ago. When I saw him, immediately I didn't want to face him at all because I was hurt all over again. To make matters worse, he was with a female. So, I don't think I'm completely over him.

So, as I stated, if you see her and you don't feel choked up, a knot in your stomach, anger, hurt, or even revengeful then it's safe to say she's really in your past. If you do feel those emotions, there's a great chance you haven't fully healed from your issues with her.

Well if it has only been two months, there is a chance you might not be over her just yet, especially since you all were together for a year.

I would say ways to tell that you might be over her is that you don't think about her frequently. If you are over her then you likely have forgiven her for cheating on you and you have let the feelings of hurt go.

It's really hard to describe how you feel when you are over someone. I think it feels like a weight has been lifted and you are no longer sad about it. Hard to describe, but you should know it when you are.

Well personally for me. I know I'm over someone when suddenly everything stops reminding me of him like our "song" and other stuff like that and when you can talk to the opposite sex without feeling grounded and bitter about them. hopefully that helps some what..

I your days go by without thinking about her every minute of the day, if your heart doesn't ache when you think you may never be together again, then you are over her. Good luck

It's completely understandable for you to be in the position you are. Some people (when cheated on or just "wronged") take either one of two emotions: Anger or Sadness. For those who are angry, usually it's nothing but f*** this and f*** that and for those who feel sad they're wondering "what did I do wrong? ". Even though you feel like someone just stole something from you, remember to always have respect for yourself. If you give into talking to her or trying to spark love again, all you're doing is letting her know that her behavior is okay. Let her come crawling back to you and take a position of power. And if she doesn't, then it was never meant to be. Sucks to take sometimes but it doesn't always work out like it does in the movies.

When you don't have to ask this question. That's when you know.