How can I stop loving someone???

If that's what you think is right, I have only to suggest for you to be more in control of relationship and let him see that you have other things besides him in the world. Best of luck.

Guys don't change, believe me if he didn't treat right back then, he won't treat right later. If you're gonna believe him, you will just ruin every minute of your life with tears and pain. The only way he might change is by pursuing you again, which would be if you ignored him and set your life on different way, he'd see that you don't care about him anymore and that would make him chase you. But common, life goes on, why play games? I suggest the best thing for you is to move on, and believe me if you don't, you'll regret it. That just happens in every situation that sounds like yours. Good luck on choosing right path!

Believe me, I understand. And I know it's hard coming from a stranger. My first serious boyfriend I dated from the ages of 18-24. Almost 6 years. And I thought that he was the man for me. But, he cheated on me, and treated me like dirt. One morning I woke up, and thought 'if he was the one, and he truly loved me, he wouldn't make me feel like this. I wouldn't be stressed out 24/7, constantly crying, losing friends and feeling like my heart's broken- and we're not even apart'. In my experience, no amount of wishing or pleading is going to make another person change. Now, I don't know this guy, but I think I know his type. But, this is your relationship, and if you desire to stick it out, I say that I wish you all the best. I wasted many great years of my life waiting for my man to change. Yours may. I don't know. I don't regret dating that man, because I learned a very valuable lesson about what I'm willing to put up with and self worth. If you two don't make it, know that it does hurt for a long time. But, with time, it gets easier. The hurt eventually goes away, and you'll be a wiser, stronger person for it. The person whom you choose to be with should be so impatient to see you and spend time with you. He should have no desire to even look at another woman. He should be thoughtful, take you places, open doors for you, call you after work or school, because you're the first person he wants to talk to and tell things to. And, he should never even dream of lying to you. I just know that no one deserves to be cheated on or lied to. And a person who will do that to someone they love, isn't worth it. But, I wish you the BEST of luck, truly.

The most important thing is to have a goal in life. I would say career goal, think of yourself in a bright future, having the husband that will treat you the way you deserve and won't make you shed a tear. Concentrate of what is giving you the attention, on people who love you and realize how important they're in your life. As it says "nobody is worth of your tears and those who are, won't make you cry". Believe me, sooner or later your love for him will die and you'll be free, but until that moment you need to make something in your life that will give you a big benefit, college career, etc,. There was a guy in my life, I really loved and knowing he doesn't feel the same way about me, hurt me every time I thought of him, I'd get depressed, couldn't talk to others sometimes, would close into my own world, and I always hoped one day he will come to me and say I love you. But just as time went, I went with it. I met great and cool people in my life and now I'm thinking - did I really cry over this guy? Did I really love him? I mean now I could just be like friends with him, but no more. And it's just depends on your time in life, how you spend it. The more fun you have without him , the faster you're going to get over him girl. I know it's not easy, but world is far from perfect, you need to take the advantage of what is not easy to reach, so at the end you could say "ah I made it through, I'm strong".

Unlike some of the other answers I have heard for this similar? I believe that you will never stop loving him. It just takes time to realize that people aren't perfect and you need to take the closest thing to perfect. My boyfriend is the exact same way. Every time I break up with him and tell him its over. He knows I don't mean it. He knows that I love him too much to let him go. But does your boyfriend know that. My boyfriend changes every time. Will your boyfriend? It all depends on loyalty, love, and life. You need to know that he "loves you, wants you in his life, and will be loyal to you no matter what" just talk to him about it. It works trust me. If it doesn't though, then he definitely is not the right guy for you and you need to move on.

People don't change unless they want to. And why would he want to, if you're letting him behave like this? He probably thinks he has it made. It's hard, but the only thing that will help (and I know) is time. He sounds like the exact opposite of boyfriend material. Once you realize that you deserve better, you'll find a guy that wouldn't dream of even needing another girl other than you. Then you'll wonder why you wasted your time on this guy.