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My boyfriend broke up with me and I'm 5 weeks pregnant?

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heatherlovesyou (Age:18 to 24)     When: 3 months ago
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My boyfriend broke up with me and I am 5 weeks pregnant with his kid. I'm 18 and he is 21. What do I do?

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obscene
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obscene (Age:18 to 24)      When: A month ago
The best option is to get an abortion for many reasons:
18 is too young
baby will grow up without his or her father
you cannot support the baby (at 18 I doubt you're an engineer for Lockheed Martin)
you'll have no life once that baby is born

Hey, this was posted 2 months ago

what did you end up doing?

whatever choice you end(ed) up making, good luck!

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and to those that disagree and you're all pro-life, please feel free to thumb me down and leave me nasty comments
gives me more Xper!

and obviously those that do agree can thumb me up and comment as well!
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AJtogo
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AJtogo (Age:Over 45)      When: 3 months ago
Well, apart or together, he has responsibilities if it's his child and you choose to have it. So your options are pretty clear:

1) Abortion
2) Have the child and be with him.
3) Have the child and be without him.
4) Have the child and put it up for adoption.

Options 1 and 4 relieve him (and you) of any responsibility. Options 2 and 3 will be major life changes for both of you.
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tegdim (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
He better not be one of them guys leaving you because he still wants to sleep around with other girls =/ I think you need to talk to him or even his family, he sounds a bit selfish, he can't leave you in the middle of nowhere.
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reptilia86 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
He is probably very scared and confused. I know you might be too and he should be supporting you , but some people need to get themselves together before they can be supportive to anyone else. Id say give him some time , not too much , but what you think would be enough and then have a talk with him. If getting through him doesn't work , talk to his family and maybe they can talk to him , or maybe to one of his best friends.

I hope it all works out for you!
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jtrechter1984 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 3 months ago
Does he know you are pregnant? Do you know why he broke up with you? Does anyone else know you are pregnant?
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LiLMissReveNant
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LiLMissReveNant (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
screw him what an ass! take him to court for the child support when the baby is born! don't let him get away with that shit.
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Question Asker he wont get away with it i promise - 3 months ago

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millionaremia (Age:Under 18)      When: 3 months ago
He is a little bitch ass punk to leave you with the kid if he knows about it , and if he does know and still doesn't want to be a father FORGET him ok?
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Anonymous User (Age:25 to 29)      When: 3 months ago
Does he know you are pregnant? Why did he end it with you? Will he still be a father in the kids life? Does anyone else no you are pregnant? Are you keeping the kid?
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Question Asker Yes I don't know why he ended it he said he won't be yes they do and yes - 3 months ago
Bubbles Well that's kind of stupid to break it off with you half way throughout the pregnancy. Things might be sitting in for him, and just to think he will be a father in a few months is a scary thing for a guy. Try talking to him about it, and his parents too. - 3 months ago
 
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