Please people help me out Hi everyone hope your feeling better than me right now! Ok so I met this promoter at a club he looked at me shook my hand left came back long story short we exchanged #'s we went out about a month or so later had a wonderful time this was to be a start of a relationship I've been looking for for so long then boom it all ended within one night it was my birthday so you know I was entirely intoxicated not a norm for me but hey it was my birthday anyways he was there of course ("promoter") I saw an ex of mine kissed him on the cheek was standing between his legs and all not knowing I was being watched due to blurry stage of drinking anywho the next day my guy tells me he wants nothing to do with me anymore he says I'm a party girl and I'm not so innocent as I said I was and I'm basically no longer his cup of tea Now I am a very ambitious young woman I'm clearly not a party girl it was my birthday so I was with the club scene for that week but that's all just having fun anywho I've begged pleaded for him 2 4give me and allow me a chance to prove that I'm not what he's thinking I am and he just does not want to hear me out I know he liked me as much as I did him but I feel like this 1 neg thing has ruined the whole thing do you think its a waste of time trying to show him otherwise I've stop calling and texting him but I still think about him all the time he was everything I wanted in my ideal man and I messed it up do you guys think he's worth the chase? Btw I haven't been successful with that what should I do what should I say or should I just call it a wrap and move on? Please help me out!
Clearly this guy has issues. I never mind my girlfriend kissing her EX on his cheek so long as she doesn't flirt with him all night long. I'm an open person so I didn't mind double dating with this guy a few times too. However, my girlfriend has gone over the edge a few times as far as inviting her EX over to my apartment just to have a drink with him while I'm not around. The first time I caught them doing this, I kicked them both out of my house and told my girlfriend we were through. Eventually after a long time we worked things out but I have already told my girlfriend that I will never trust her to be with another one of the her EX's alone together while I'm not around. AND if I ever caught her alone with another man again without telling me about it first then our relationship would be completely over without remorse or a third chance.
First off it seems that this guy fobbed you off by saying "Oh you party too much, you're not for me. ", that my dear is an example of any old excuse to get out of seeing you again.
I'm being blunt because you can do much better than some guy who is ruining your happiness after just one date. What looks like your perfect guy a lot of the time just isn't. All that glitters is often not gold.
You're ambitious and you obviously know what you want but just get on with your life & you'll meet the perfect guy for you. This guy might have appeared perfect but he isn't perfect for yourself.
If you are going to wait for him then my answer is simply don't. This guy is not going to call or text. Don't text him saying goodbye or anything like that, after all it's only been one date. Just leave it. He obviously doesn't care if you're a complete teetotaller or an alcoholic. It wasn't the fact that you were drunk, it was just any old excuse he was looking for.
You will find someone who is perfect for you, don't give up hope yet. Use this experience as a lesson & you'll learn & soon you'll feel so empowered that you kept strong & left this situation behind.
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