For the last 2 years I have thought and dreamt about my first love.

Try being more with you new boyfriend think about all the good things y'all can do later on talk about y'all future and what if one day y'all get married. Just do things that I'll make you forget about your ex that all the advice I can probably give you girl but hey good luck.

In time I'm sure you will...i felt the same way with my ex and I have 2 kids with him but I found someone and am falling in love with him and slowly getting over my ex...just try to think about ur new boyfriend whenever you catch yourself thinking of your ex. Also think about how bad ur ex is for u!

Sucks right ?? I go through the same thing from time to time and that's why I'm single now. See the thing is your not saying you want to be with him , the fact of the matter is you already know he's the not the best person for you, but you just can't seem to let the thought of him escape you. Simply put he's your first love their aren't to many people that will ever take his place . . your in love right now , but there' s nothing like your first there's something almost so innocent about that . . .it allows us for the moment to be naive and swept away in our feelings and thoughts. What I'm trying to say is that I DON'T THINK you'll ever get over him , but you will get past him ( you already have) You may be missing what you 2 had , but if your not with him maybe you deserved better, or at the time you 2 didn't realize you deserved each other. How know's what 2morrow will bring until then file it under normal . . its ok to think of what was . . It makes me happy at times ( and sad) for now focus on what you do have . Any ?'s you know where to find me .