I was dating a guy for 2 months. We talked on the phone everyday and saw each other about once a week.He worked a lot but I never complained. We had a misunderstanding on the phone last month. I was disappointed that I had only seen him for 2 hrs that week and seemed to be upset about me mentioning it so I was quick to get off the phone but now he doesn't call anymore. I have called a few times and apologized to him for the misunderstanding but he said I sounded like his jealous ex girlfriend. He called me a few weeks after this incident but never mentioned about us getting together. I called him recently and he seemed glad to hear from me and said he would talk to me soon but I haven't heard from him. I am just really hurt and confused how he could just stop our relationship over some silly misunderstanding. It seemed I was doing most of the chasing after all this happened but I have tried to back off and give him space and I am moving on with my life but it is very hard to forget him especially when it just seems so silly to me. I keep blaming myself for what happened. Maybe I sounded angrier on the phone than what I realized. I guess if he was really into me he would have forgiven me? He seemed to have really liked me before this happened.
A similar thing happened to me not to long ago. guys just don't like when you say things like that it makes them feel you think there not good enough and your telling them they don't try. you need to prove to him some how that you still care about him, id give him a text just very casually saying hello. see what he has to say if he has nothing to say for himself then he wasn't worth. play it cool
I'm in a similar situation and from what people have been telling me, you should back off and give him some space to breathe and cool off. in the mean time move on with your life and try not to dwell on this too much. at this point you've already done all you can. you've apologized and tried to clear things up but he keeps on avoiding it altogether. most men avoid confrontation and usually retreat into their caves and wait for the storm to pass. just be patient and wait. the ball is on his court now. give him space and don't contact him anymore. if he comes back that's great. if he doesn't then at least you've already started the moving on process.
I've been in a relationship with my now ex-boyfriend for the past two years. He was my first love, first relationship, first everything. We are both...
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