last monday night I told my ex we should not see each other or talk to each other for awhile but I told her if she needed me to call me and she has not called me or text me since it's almost been six days and we never go this long. I figured if she cared she would call me and ask how I was doing at least. Can anybody help me to where I have an idea what she's doing. I know I told her we should not see each other or talk but I figured if she cared she would call please help thanks.
Well you should've explained to her exactly what you meant. If you say that y'all are not going to talk for a while or see each other then what do you expect her to do? If you want her to call, why did you say that? She doesn't want you to think that she is obsessed with you. She could care but not call you, she's doing what you asked.
well she's doing exactly what you told her to when you said that you shouldn't see each other or talk to each other for a while. maybe she gets that you guys are over and done with. ever thought that maybe she's trying to stay away from you because that's what's going to make you happy. to be honest, I don't really understand why you're wondering when you were the one who told her not to talk or see each other for a while? if anything, she should be the one feeling and thinking that. I don't want to sound rude but raising up questions like this.you're only going to hurt her more by playing mind games with her. that's messed up. if you're done, you're done. no use trying to be nice about it when she's already hurting because once you say the words, you can never take them back.
Ok, what are you trying to pull here? If you told her she should not call you, she has enough self respect not to contact you, because a) she respects your wishes and b) she could not possibly be that stupid to go and demean herself for anyone, even if that anyone is her boyfriend (at this point her ex boyfriend).
So, I really don't see how this situation can be so elusive to you. It's quite clear to anyone else. She is trying to get over you since you have obviously suggested that, and she'll be moving on with her life.
Yeah but if she cared like she says she does she would be calling me you know what I'm trying to say. - 5 months ago
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Yes, I know what you're trying to say, but I know where she's coming from, and I know for a fact that if she contacts you she'll just end up acting like a loser and you'll turn out to be this big macho guy who all the girls yearn for and that's not something SHE would like to experience. -blame it on the society- Understand? She'll be seen as a needy pathetic girlfriend and you'll be the one who'll feel sorry for her and 'accept' her back... And that's just not right! - 5 months ago
read the first sentence of your question "last monday night I told my ex we should not see each other or talk to each other for awhile" What do you expect? She has some dignity and pride I'm sure. If my boyfriend said that to me I wouldn't call him. You should be calling HER asking how she's doing - you're the one who told her to go away! You''ve effectively rejected her - you have to live with the consequences now. You got what you asked her to do - if you didn't mean what you said you shouldn't have said it.
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