Hey guys, My ex and I broke up last December, We have kept in contact VIA email and text but he never entertained the idea of getting back together. So, getting fed up with the situation, I started to ignore his contact attempts.about 3-4 of them in a row. Last Sunday he's like I have to talk to you. Basically he says he wants to try dating again and see what happens. This was 4 days ago and I haven't heard anything since.
what is going on with him? Is he just messing with me?
Update: Sorry I guess I missed a key point in my explanation, I did say yes I wanted to see him, and then I got ignored, then I talked to him briefly online last night, and he said NOTHING about setting up a date etc.see why I think it's games? - A minute a
5 months ago
Well it depends, did you ignore his message last Sunday? I think that allot of girls think that they can play games,so to speak, and guys will know what the game is. If you do still like him or want to see where it goes, then contact him back. I doubt that he would contact you and if you responded then just totally ignore you. If I was in his situation I would try one last ditch effort and then if that didn't work, I would move on. Plain and simple. Guys don't wait and the reason is because we don't want to waste our time and we also don't want to be stuck in the vulnerable state that happens when we still have feelings for someone. So yes I can understand if he hasn't contacted you if you haven't done anything to contact him.
Sorry I guess I missed a key point in my explanation, I did say yes I wanted to see him, and then I got ignored, then I talked to him briefly online last night, and he said NOTHING about setting up a date etc.......see why I think it's games? - 5 months ago
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YAH, see your point. I'm not sure then. I would just not contact him then until he replies. you don't need him to keep you on a line. If he does contact you make sure and ask him straight up why it took so long! - 5 months ago
The two of you staying in contact means you both have an interest in keeping the relationship alive. Did you entertain the idea of getting back together? It took only a couple of days of silence to scare him that he may lose you forever. Did you talk to him for 6 months just so you could turn him down? Your silence is messing with him you need to tell him one way or the other.
He probably just wanted to see if you'd get back with him, know he knows you would so his ego got a boost and he's on his way to someone else. I've seen dudes do that numbers of time guys play games too honey gotta keep an eye on them
yes, he is just messing with your head he's not that into you! what he does is simply calls you and bugs when he's lonely and needs someone. and when he ends meeting someone new then he doesn't see the need of wanting you anymore as a rebound so here's what you do tell him to never call you again and your worth more than he can ever handle! your an independent woman with another class and you won't be needing him!
well since you and ur fella broke up ya should be careful what you are going to do.if you like him get back with him but make sure ur making the right choice taking him back. what ever happened between ye that made ye broke up and you want to take him back look back in the past to that point cause you don't want to go through that pain again havin to feel depressed if you did more likely you did have a few weeks to think about it ok best of luck if you didn't understand my reply just ask me again
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