Dont get me wrong, I am totally over my ex, but looking back, I still wonder what went wrong in our relationship. We were friends since childhood and we started hanging out a lot at the end of my sophomore year. He asked me out and I said yes. I wasn't into him really, but I wanted to use him to get to his hot friend. Shitty I know. I never told him either. A few weeks went by and I started to like him a lot. By the end in the summer, I was in love with him.
I lost my virginity to him and he lost his to me. blah blah blah
I am a really sarcastic person, and I jokingly called him betch (as in the shoes vid) as his kind of pet name. but I always told him I loved him and I thought we were cool and all.
As we went back to school, shit got crazy and we were both super busy. We didn't hang out a lot, I mean we went from like everyday hanging out to like 1 or 2 times a week. Over x mas break we hung out 1 time.
I told him I was a little mad we never hung out, but he didn't listen. I was always cool with him hanging out and talking to other girls and he spent more time on myyearbook talking to girls that he did talking to me. it pissed me off a lot!
Then like a week later we broke up. He said his dad might get a job somewhere else and he might move so it was better to end it now. (his dad didn't get the job) He wouldn't give me a reason but he said it wasnt another girl. It was him not me. after sever psychotic phone calls on me crying like crazy and several weeks of feeling sick to my stomach just seeing him, we haven't talked sense. Now its been so long I really can't talk to him. I sill talk to his mom, because she was like my second mom growing up! LOL
I don't like him anymore, but I want to know where I messed up so that I don't make the same mistakes again.
Update: by the way, we only fought once! It was because he met a girl while camping and "fell in love" with her. They traded emails; she never emailed him back. I called him stupid and I told him how girls love to flirt with guys they will never see.
3 months ago
Update: This was over 6 months ago, and I just don't want to make the same mistakes again in my new relationship.
3 months ago
from what you have said, it seems things maybe have gotten into a routine day after day the same kinda thing. he maybe needed a change and instead of talking to you about it he found a way to end thing with the excuse of the job and his dad. I'm gonna stick with the "rut" theme here, he could have also met someone else and he could have seen it as a way to see "the other side" and by that I mean just being with someone new and starting fresh. the icing on the cake could have been the psychotic calls. it can kinda make a vulnerable guy feel trapped or being pushed into a corner and that could be a reason he's not speaking to you now. so the only way to get the real answer from him would to just ask him. but let things cool down a bit. well a lot lol. just one day ask him to talk and just let him know you were confused about the break up and just want to know where you guys as a couple went wrong.
Ok ladies I wanna know why when your relationship is pretty much down the drain and us guys tell the girl that I think its time we go our separate...
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