My ex broke up with me a 3weeks ago,we were really close and spent all our free time together.we'd been together for 9months.He said he wanted to be alone and that he had decided to get closer to God.One of he's friends tels me that he's seeing someone else though he say its a long distance relationship but I don't know whether to rely on him because he's interested in me.when I asked him about it he totally denied it.At fast I tried to remind him how we were good together but he said he knew that and that he wants me to be he's best friend.he still keeps in touch though, checks out on me and reminds me how am such a good person and should concentrate on more important issues in my life for now.The thing is when he calls or texts it really hurts because I can't understand what went wrong.please advice is this a lost case?should I just move on with my life?
Yes you need to move on honey.Your ex is using you as emotional support to help him get through the break up. You need to cut contact with him and move on. If he realizes what he has lost and totally comes around then go from there.if not then ull be fine because you don't wanna be with someone who won't fight for you once ur gone. Ur gonna be fine remember its just one guy and you have a lot more of the world to see. Give it at least 3-4weeks with no contacting him and letting him contact you, then take things from there.
Yes! He is playing games with you. If he really loves you and only yoooou, he would not think twice before being with you. He wants to have fun with the new adventure and also make sure have you on his radar in case he is dumped. About the text messages: DO NOOOOOOT reply his messages any more or answer his phone calls. WHY? because if he is a real man, he will follow you and respect you! Advise! Do not feel guilty of anything .he is the problem here, not you. Good luck!
Ok, so my ex has been telling me he loves me and misses me since we broke up almost 2 months ago. We broke up after a year and a half relationship...
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
We would go somewhere casual but nice for dinner and drinks.. on the back of my motorcycle of course.. on the strip in Vegas.. afterwards we'd walk the strip and talk and take in sights.. sit out on the strip and look at the beautiful desert sky!
Afterwards..what will your date know about you?
They will definitely know my passion for life, that I luv to laugh and have fun first off, and that I know what I want and nothing gets in my way. they will also know I care very deeply about my friends and people I let in my life I would do anything for.