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Should I go back out with him?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 2 months ago
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Me and my ex been broken up for 5 months but we still talk. The last 2 months we've been talking like were together. I know I still like him and he still like me. The resin I broke up with him was because he cheated. But I know he was just with her because I was busy and I talked to her and she sayed he acted like he barley liked her. What should I do?

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WaitingAtTheDoor
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WaitingAtTheDoor (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
If he can cheat once, he can cheat again. Plus with cheaters, if you get involved with them again, you risk the chance of being the person they get caught with. And who knows what that will bring.
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LoveYourself17 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
You will have to make that decision on your own. But like what all have said so far, the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. I know you like him and have strong feelings for him but I think you should not come up with excuses for him cheating. Rationalization is a very dangerous thing because you lose sight of the truth. Remember to be with someone not because of his/her potential but where s/he is already at in life.
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Acuzio That last sentence is incredibly good advice, especially for romantic idealists who tend to look at what can be changed instead of the present reality. - 2 months ago

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stadiumstatus2 (Age:Under 18)      When: 2 months ago
once a cheater, always a cheater
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allisonbator513 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
Well, you want to take it slow. because you want to make sure he is not going to cheat on you again. But try dating, but again just take it slow for a while then go for it after a couple weeks. hope my advice helped alitte bitt good luck [=
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DoNt-PaNiC (Age:Under 18)      When: 2 months ago
whatever you do, do not get back with him! please your making excuses for him! if he really loved you he would of never dreamed of cheating on you, the excuse of that you were busy or whatever isn't good enough there is no excuse for cheating. he cheated, he broke your trust are you in the state that you want to go through that again? honestly the only way you can actually move on from him is to stop talking to him, you don't need to have any contact with him and the more you talk to him the more you will want to be with him again. please please please. don't take him back I know it sounds harsh but once a cheater, always a cheater.
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caitieliscious (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
I have to agree. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

Regardless of how you were acting/busy etc, the boy has a mouth, he should use it to tell you how he felt, not use it with another person!

You deserve someone so much better. Someone who actually respects you and adores you to the extent that they don't need to cheat!

I really hope you find that person!

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