What should I do???

I agree with teesand, you have to forgive yourself. At this point, it's fine to cry when you need to grieve because you have lost something you cherish but you do need to move on. Give it some space and time. In the mean time, continue to grow as a person, get stronger, and have fun.

He probably really meant it when he forgave you, something definitely changed his mind and I am starting to think his friend was bragging/talking about it, your guy found out and said "screw it" and dumped you.



What should you do? chalk this up to experience and don't do it again. Time to move on, you are very young and more than likely would have wound up breaking up with him sooner or later.

You'll get what I am saying when you are older and out of this Fog. A year from now you are not even going to understand why you were so upset. Trust what I say.


And don't forget what happened so you don't repeat this experience. You have a whole LONG life in front of you, don't worry.

First stop crying. You have to forgive yourself . You messed up. It sounds like you know that which is good. Your boyfriend is conflicted so that's why he goes from hot to cold to hot. You broke his trust with one of his best friends. But he really did have feelings for you, but you broke that trust in a bad way. So you are going to have to give this some time. Once you have forgiven yourself then you two need to have a real talk about what happened. Be honest with each other. He might not be able to forget since it was a good friend of his. Tell him how you feel and see where it goes. But if he can't let go of the past you are going to have to move on and chalk it up to a lesson learned.

How did he find out? Is it that you told him?!

i say you should tell him and see how he feel that's what I would do and I would never see this friend of his again

The fact he broke up with you a month later is probably because he thought he was cool with it, but really wasn't. I reckon it hurt him much more than he realized, especially by finding out from another source. (I didn't know whether it was you who told him or another person)

He is clearly still very hurt by the situation, which is why he is still calling you and demanding to know your feelings etc. As for him getting over you, I highly doubt it's true, otherwise he wouldn't be contacting you demanding to know how you feel. Remember, the opposite to love is indifference. Even if he shows hatred, he still has some feelings there!

You could either wait it out and see what happens. This way you let him cool down and think more logically.

Or you could call him.if you chose this option, you have to be strong and be prepared for hurtful things to be said. If you do this then explain to him how everything was a mistake(we all do make mistakes!), you never meant to hurt him, it was a one time, you still love him etc. This way he knows how you feel and he can chose to either forgive you, or not. However, if he does chose to forgive you, ensure he really has. You don't want to end up in the same situation a month later.

Good luck! I wish you all the best!