He had the nerve to break up with me in a text!!!

Haha. I don't mean to be too much of an asshole but this guy is a straight up pimp. He treated you like crap and you STILL felt he was what you were looking for. And 5 months is all you need to figure that out? Wow.

I hope all the "nice guys" out there read this post to see what guys women really go after. Not the reliable, honest, sweet man. Oh, no my friend. It's the jerk-off that never calls, steals money, and has multiple women on his phone. Oh and don't they say women grow out of this "phase" when they get older and more mature? This woman is 33 gentlemen. Priceless.

The only thing I want to know is where this guy is at because I want to have a beer with him and ask him how he does it.

Good looking out. Peace.

This actually happened to my best friend a few weeks ago. All you can do is just move on. If he didn't respect you enough to provide you with closure than you never belonged with him in the first place.

A guy who would treat someone like that isn't worth any woman's time. You need to realize that there are so many great guys out there waiting for a woman he can treat with respect, grow with, laugh with, etc etc. If you're hung up with this loser, you need to go out and meet other men who'll go out of their way to show you that you're special to them. Your image of this man, or should I say child, is warped out of proportion. It is sad to hear you say you're hurting but it sounds like you haven't lost much. I can't say much about the good times you might have had with him but he sounds very immature and unstable. Find a new person to start a MATURE relationship with and take it from there.

Its hard when you try you're best to make things work out at the same time you're partner doesn't care , anyway if he owe you money try to get you're money back and try to get over him and keep going because he don't deserve you , try to find someone who appreciate you're feelings.

Wow what an ass! Good looking out? Borrowing money? And then told you to delete his number? You deal with this by never giving that guy the time of day again. It's hard when you find someone that you know could be a good match for you but they won't give. Sounds to me like he was showing you from the beginning that he wasn't the greatest. I highly recommend the book "Why Men Love Bitches" by Sherry Argov. Changed my life!

Well, quite frankly, he sounds like a jerk. The truth is, if the guy is borrowing money from you and standing you up, he's def not marriage material and will probably not be in it for the long run. His "good looking out" text is probably a hint that you're too smart for him and know you don't need his BS. I'd say delete his number like he asked and kick him to the curb.You'll just get hurt more in the end. Don't sweat it (I know, easier said than done).but know there are plenty of other good men out there.Sorry.good luck to you!