How Can I Convince My ex I Want Him Back?

Show him. That simple. Show up on his doorstep. "SHOW HIM." Although this may not be wise, as it still seems he's quite upset with you. He might just ask you to leave, or why your even at his place, or he may not even answer his door. That's the risk you take. If you love him truly would you take that risk though? Yes. Although, don't expect him to just take you back. You've hurt him dearly. Beleive it or not guys have emotions too. Yes, they can be hurt.

When you left him, and hurt him in the process in the breakup I'm sure. I've been there and am in this guy's position myself. Do I still love my ex wife you BET! I didn't want it to end in the first place. She did. What that told me is, she can't truly feel for me, as I do, or did for her. Which really hurt, and honestly; if she showed at my place, I'd ask her, "Why are you here?" That is what she told me, so I'd return the favor.

I guess what I'm saying is, don't get your hopes up. He may love you, but will he admit that? Goodluck, it's at that point a loss of pride, and to him he's not going anywhere by admiting that. To him he knows you don't love him, in his mind you can't, you've already shown that when something better comes along you'll just dart for it and ditch him. This is going to ruin his faith, and trust in you if you even get him to have any at all. It is going to make the realationship harder than it ever was before, and because of that the odds of it working are minute.

He is simply going to continue to ignore you. Due to what you've done to him. Next time, I suggest instead of thinking about it after the fact; you do what my ex neglected to do. Sit down and think about it seriously. Think am I willing to possibly loose this person for the rest of my life, over this other person. Is it worth that much to me? Think about the times you two spent together, the fun you've had; and next time think good and hard before YOU make any decisions.

It was your decision to leave him, and with that came concequences. If your not willing to live with those concequences, then don't make the decision. It's that simple.

You haven't heard from him in 3 months because of these reasons.

1. You didn't care to call him.
2. He didn't care, or have any reason in his mind to contact you.
3. He was so hurt by what you did, "This is how my ex made me feel" That he never wanted to speek, see, hear from you again.
4. He's moved on, found someone who treats him right, and won't just ditch him for the "NEXT BEST THING."
5. He doesn't want to associate with females, and would rather just be by himself, due to being hurt so badly by one. Hence the, "I don't want a realationship status."

He may also just not want a realtionship from you personally, as he knows where that road is going to lead. In the end honestly who would want to do this? No guy in his right mind. Why so he can get hurt again? Wouldn't you be thinking that?