Scared

You and your boyfriend have been going out for 7 months now and when you went out everything was perfect. You hung out,talked on the phone, always said I love you...am I right? Then when the months pass by he starts to act different. One day he chills with you one day he don't. He talks when he feels like it and things are going wrong. It happened to me but now things are getting better.

What you should do is tell him what's bothering you. Tell him how you feel and ask him why he can be on the computer or hang out with his boys all day but can't spend not even 10 minutes with you? Why does he call only when he feels like it or is he bored of the relationship?

And if he really loves you, he would do something that can change the way he is acting now.

If that doesn't work you should break up with him. What would you rather do, be with him and him continuing calling you when he feels like it, doesn't even hang out with you and putting up with it and getting mad over it everyday or breaking up with him and starting things over before one day he might cheat on you and you'll get hurt.

Honey, I'll be honest in my opinion here but he either wants to finish things or he's cheating on you. For the past few months, my boyfriend of 10 years has been acting the same way, he's not even seen his kids, anyway yesterday, I found out he's been cheating on me...I'm not saying that it's the same case for you...but if I was you, I'd save yourself the heartache. Confront him and if he still spins his lies, get out before you get hurt more than you already are...Good luck hun and remember, you are never alone through your difficult times.