okay . me and my boyfriend have taken a break during summer and decided we'd get back together when school started but recently I went on his myspace (his comments are hidden) and I was curious to see the comments he wrote on my birthday so my friend taught me how to see his comments regardless if they are hidden or not. so I went to the day of my birth day and found he was talking to this girl.She wrote how much she liked him and how desperate she was to go out with him. at that moment I became uneasy. as I kept reading he replied exactly what I feared he'd type. he told her that he still liked her and sometimes when he talks to her he thinks of breaking up with me to ask her out, but he hesitates because he doesn't know what her answer will be considering she likes someone else and she had rejected him before.at first I didn't know what to do since we both agreed to a break. but I realized my birthday was a lot before summer had even started and before we agreed to our break. so I decided to call him to confront him.he ends up telling me he has no memory of anything I'm talking about. I got angry and hung up.he called back then he starts to check his comments but forgets the date of my birthday so I hung up again. and again he called back.then he tells me he knows exactly what I'm talking about.and confirms it's all true . so I hung up again but for some reason he called back and I told him I had nothin more to say to him. and in a clam tone he replied "iight" and hung up .all of this took place on our anniversary.im not sure if we are broken up or just fighting.what do I do?
I would say you are broken up and honestly it's a good thing. If he can't choose what he wants to do and actually thinks of breaking up with you for her than he doesn't need to be in a relationship with you. You deserve someone who knows what he wants and isn't afraid to stand for it. The fact that he's talking to her in the manner that he talks to her is disrespectful to all three of you. I would say leave this guy in the dust.
I think you may have broken up hun, the fact that he's making out he doesn't remember the dates and he wrote back to the girl in the way he shouldn't have just goes to show he's not beign faithful. I guess the fact that a break was suggested means that it was possible the relationship was slowly about to come to an end? The fight I think may have been the final straw for both of you, it sounds like your better without him. But, perhaps just try talking to him one last time, FACE TO FACE, don't call him again cos its likely you won't get a definate answer. Good luck
If you keep hanging up on him, then "he" thinks you are over. I understand why you are so upset though because you all planned to get back together, but here he is considering talking to another girl. The whole plan of you both getting back together could be ruined. If you still want to be with him, call him and tell him why you're so upset. Like, "I thought we were going to get back together, but here you are talking to another girl. So where do I stand with you." He probably thinks he isn't doing anything wrong since you both are broken up while he's doing this. If you still want him, call and tell him how you feel and hear him out before you hang up. Then once you hear his side of the story, you'll know whether he's worth hanging up on, or not.
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