I have been dating this guy for 2 and 1/2 months. He is a really nice and shy guy but he just doesn't put enough effort in relationship. He has never called me if I wanted to talk I had to call but he would only talk for like 5 minutes then would rush off the phone. I had tried to make plans many times but he either happens to be busy or backs out at the last minute. We have never hung out really like him and it didn't bother me all that much until I started talking to an old crush and he gives me a lot of attention. He texts me every other day and we talk on aim every day. I really want more attention from my boyfriend. He doesn't have aim so that's out of the question but still.
Should I dump him or what? I don't really know what to so. The old crush wants to be friends with benefits I think. So he is out of the question but I know that once I see my boyfriend on the bus I will forgive him so I need to decide before then. Also if I do break up with him, how do I do it? I don't want to do it over the phone and I don't want to ruin his first day of school either. Please help me! P.S sorry its so long.
I think you should break up with him. I mean if he was that into you he would call you and he would want to hang out. I suggest reading the book He's Just not that into you. Don't take this the wrong way but it can really help. I just read it and looking back on past relationships I should have dumped the losers way before I did. If a guy is really into a girl there is nothing stopping them from seeing/talking to that girl. You deserve better then that. Don't put yourself through the stress and constant questions to yourself. He might just not be that into you! Its pretty simple once you recognize it. As for how to do it, just be straight up and tell him the honest truth face to face. Make it a clean break and find someone who wants to be in your life. Good luck!
maybe he's not that much talker on the phone , because some guys not into the phone thing , although you need to talk to him and xplain what you feel , don't make any decisions before you talk to him and understand whaat going on with him .
i think you need to sit down and talk with him about it.and tell him that you expect certian things out of a relationship and if he can't bring that to the table then he needs to let you know right then so you can both either end it or work on it.
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