For the guys.. Is there anyone out there who lost the love of their life because of the fact you didn't tell her how much she meant to you till it was too late, and then somehow won her BACK! If so, what did you do?!?
For the girls... Is there anyone out there, same deal, you left a guy and then he tried to win you back, and you were SURE you were done with him, but somehow he won your heart again. What did he do?!?
I am completely not contacting my ex right now, hoping that if enough time passes, she will remember the good things about us, and offer me a chance to PROVE to her that I will NEVER let her down again. She is the love of my life, I knew it when we were together, but I refused to admit it.
So, has a miracle happened to anyone out there? Was it anything you did to win her back, or anything HE did to win YOU back? Important to note! She broke up with me, because she felt like we weren't going anywhere, and I've spent a lot of energy over the past 9 months trying to let her know any way I could that I was sorry for not appreciating her, and that I loved her and wished she would give me another chance, but she said she felt like we shouldn't try again. It is only after she started looking online for someone that I finally realized I am going to have to wait and hope her feelings change. Thanks fo any thoughts...
Hmmm yeah I thought I was over my bf. He had been flirting with other girls and I was sick of it. But then he won me back by sending me a mix CD of all of our songs that we liked, danced to, w/e. He called me up and said how sorry he was and how much I changed his life saving him from drugs he was on. He made me cry saying how sorry he was and the next day he came to my house and gave me a little baby horse.
Anna-exile
(Age:36 to 45)
When: More than a year ago
If I were your ex, whatever I was feeling about you, if I had not had ANY contact at all from you, then I would be moving on with my life. I think if the same happened to you, you would do the same.
You imply that you didn't tell her how much she meant to you at the time, but you are doing the same thing now. She is not a mind reader and to most of us, no contact = no interest.
At the end of the day are you expecting her to suddenly contact you, having had no encouragement, and tell you that she wants to get back together? You don't say who ended the relationship, but either way there is a chance that she may not want to get it back on again - still you will never know if you don't ask her.
And yes, I did think I was over someone - he told me he still loved me and we got together again. But after a while it became apparent that there was a good reason for splitting up in the first place, so be careful! Good luck :)
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