How were YOU won back?

Hmmm yeah I thought I was over my bf. He had been flirting with other girls and I was sick of it. But then he won me back by sending me a mix CD of all of our songs that we liked, danced to, w/e. He called me up and said how sorry he was and how much I changed his life saving him from drugs he was on. He made me cry saying how sorry he was and the next day he came to my house and gave me a little baby horse.

If I were your ex, whatever I was feeling about you, if I had not had ANY contact at all from you, then I would be moving on with my life. I think if the same happened to you, you would do the same.

You imply that you didn't tell her how much she meant to you at the time, but you are doing the same thing now. She is not a mind reader and to most of us, no contact = no interest.

At the end of the day are you expecting her to suddenly contact you, having had no encouragement, and tell you that she wants to get back together? You don't say who ended the relationship, but either way there is a chance that she may not want to get it back on again - still you will never know if you don't ask her.

And yes, I did think I was over someone - he told me he still loved me and we got together again. But after a while it became apparent that there was a good reason for splitting up in the first place, so be careful!
Good luck :)

It's never happened to me before, but all I can suggest is do anything that comes into your heart to try and win her back, and show how much you do care for her, and how you were wrong.