My situation is this. Me and my boyfriend broke up just yesterday. In the past few days, this new guy, ask about my relationship with my ex(whose my boyfriend on that time) and I said were on the rocky situation. He said that he likes me and he's willing to help me to forget about my ex. I still love my ex. Is it ok to let him or I'm just putting myself on a deep shit?
Update: Yeah. tnx guys. I cried when I read all your concerns. tnx. ='(
3 months ago
That depends on whether you want to stay broken up with your ex-boyfriend, or you two are going to try to work things out. If its over for good, then it doesn't matter what you do with this new boy.
If you plan on making up with your ex, then you need to focus your attention on that, and not someone else. Reverse the roles for a moment, and then think about how you feel. Your ex is broken up for less than 24 hours, and some new hottie makes a pass at him.should he accept her proposal all the while knowing that tomorrow he might get back with you?
Just because you take a few days, weeks apart doesn't mean its a green light to do anything you want because your 'technically' broken up. That is just an excuse you use to justify your actions.but not necesarily the right thing to do.
Im having the same issue. Except we have been broken up for a little over three weeks. Its also my ex's real good friend. Because I want to someday salvage our relationship of 3 years I'm not gonna hook up with this guy. I mean, if you still love him and believe that someday in th future you can work things out, its probably not the best idea to hook up with someone else.
I did this when I had broken up with my ex. Sometimes you do need that person to help you forget but you have to remember not to get your emotions tied up because this person does not want a real relationship, so eventually he may leave and if you are emotionally attached it will be a "break up" all over again. There is nothing wrong with it but you must brace yourself for the consequences that may follow and in the end most times you would have never really moved on from your ex because you were simply "occupied" and your troubles were being pushed aside. Instead I would advice you to work on moving on from your ex and do that by hanging out with friends, learning about things you like to do and just try to place your focus elsewhere and in time you will be fine. Good Luck
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