Okay this girl I was dating was really hard to deal with. She never opened up to me and when she did she would later say I didn't understand her. She would never listen to me she said I didn't open up to her but I tried whenever I did she just ignored me. I took all of this and said she is a good person with a few problems. But the last straw was she wanted me to email her some files but they were too big for email and she is not the most computer savvy person, so I had to find a easy way to upload it to a storage site and make it as easy as possible for her to get the files. Also right before she asked for these files she asked me to help her get in contact with her ex-girlfriend.
Finding her ex took me like 4 hours and made me late for work, when I told her all she had to say was oh well sorry. And while I was trying to help her get those files she got impatient and said that I didn't know what I was doing. I told her that I am going out of my way to help you 'cause I love you. She just said sorry and it didn't sound like she was sincere. After I got her the files she asked for she said "finally its about time" I got annoyed and said I'm trying but your not I just need some space. I took a walk and when I got back she apologized and acted all nice and sweet then asked for another program. I just said no I'm tired of you and we're finished.
The next day I said I was sorry and that it was my fault. I also told her that we can't get back together but that it was my fault. She had the nerve to say it is all your fault your just like my last ex-boyfriend (who was a real jerk and hurt and abused her) she knows I hate being compared to him but said it just to spite me.
So I told her it was not all my fault most of the things the went wrong were 'cause of her inability to talk or listen or even take a interest in what I had to say. Well right after I told her his I felt like a real piece sh** and wanted to take it back right away. I really hate to make someone feel bad or hurt them, but its not like I said anything that wasn't true and if she keeps going on the same way she has been she will never get better.
Don't feel bad.you were open and honest, you told her how you were feeling and what you were thinking and she obviously didn't really care. I wished all guys were open and honest about what they think and feel. She seems like she's got some issues, you are better off. Good luck :)
NEVER feel bad for telling the truth. I just recently broke up with my boyfriend, and I could never be angry at him for being honest with me. You especially shouldn't feel bad if she is being spiteful (that's awful of her to compare you to her ex). I can understand how you don't want to make anyone feel bad- I do the same thing, and it makes me sacrifice my happiness sometimes. Don't do it. You're right- she won't ever get better if she continues on that way- and she won't ever have a healthy relationship. But you will- and you'll find someone who will want to talk to you and open up to you and be everything they can be for you.
don't feel bad. if she has issues that she hasnt gotten over than maybe she shouldnt be dating in the first place! dont feel bad, shes just playing mind games with you,i had a boyfirend who would treat me like crap everytime i couldn't do something the second he asked me! that gets old, ur better off not being with her, if you let her get away with it then it will only get worse
(Age:25 to 29)
When: 2 months ago
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