Why is he doing this??

Sounds to me like he's not ready to take the next step. If he doesn't want to give up being single then it's his loss as hard is it may be for you. Just got done going through that myself. Stop responding to the texts and calls and maybe he'll get the hint? It's not your fault and you shouldn't worry about situations or feelings you can't control. It'll make you sick.

It seems that you still like him and I guess he can feel that also. If you want a break from him just show him that you are over him. You are giving him hope by allowing him to kiss you and such things. If he is that stubborn, talking won't do any good. Try making yourself unavailable he might gave up after all.

Tell him If he doesn't want to be with you he doesn't get to kiss you contact you or anything like that! I think he's just dong that untill he finds someone else which is completely unfair to you. if he can't deal with his loneliness on his own that it isn't your problem! Taking the first step would be telling him exactly what you feel and changing your number. make sure your friends ignore him also.

Girl I know how you feel! My ex is doing the same thing to me. It sucks because like you I still have feelings for him and still want to talk to him BUT you gotta know you're doing no good to yourself and these guys ARE playing with our emotions and don't seem to care because if they did they wouldn't be doing it. He's asking you to basically be his friend with benefits right? That can't happen since you had a relationship with him and still have feelings other then friends toward him. You need to be honest with yourself are you sticking around him because you're hoping he'll come around again? ( I know that's what I was thinking in my situation) If not, great, you can be friends but don't let him use you! You deserve better then that. Cut him loose completely so you can really move on. You have to be honest with yourself and him too. Tell him its not fair to you if he's treating you like that, its all of him or nothing at all.

block his phone number, block him on facebook, block him on msn, and tell all of your friends that you don't want to talk to him anymore. All guys will try to take advatange of you if you let him but they love you and cherish you when you demand more from then than a walk in the park.

If he can't give you the decency to be your boyfriend but he's all for talking all the time and whatnot tell him to leave you alone. He probably senses that you don't want him to go away completely. You have to be strong.