When your relationships come to an end, who ends it?
Does it seem like it's you more often than not who is calling it off, or your partner? Or has the feeling of wanting to stop the relationship usually been mutual in your experiences?
I'm the same way, though it's not always necessarily a short period of time for me. - 2 months ago
Answerer
I wish it were as simple as having some bad experience, bad memories, bad break up, emotional problems, but for me I don't think it's like that. I know quite a few girls who push guys away because they're scared of what could be, or scared of themselves, etc.
But for the life of me I can't find any of that in me, and it makes me very irritated and sad. I feel like I deserve an easy answer as to why I can't stay interested in people for a long time, but I guess not.
Unfortunately I seem to be in the position of the "unknowing fool". I usually get blindsided. I'm a great guy, but I guess that special girl is still out there somewhere. Should be fun trying to find her though.
I have had three guys avoid me after giving them 6+mos of my life ( I deserve a breakup of some kind) and they were not man enough to dump me. So in then end I guess I do but normally it is because of them.