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Will he take me back?

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Niny2 (Age:25 to 29)     When: 2 months ago
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I met this guy 4months ago. we immediately hit it off and started going out. When my ex-boyfriend realised that I had moved on, he started threatening this guy and even started stalking him. This went on for almost a month. my new boyfriend then gave up on me and dumped me. I really love him and he loves me too but he says that he can't take me back. We talk a lot and he calls every night, he says that he loves me but can't handle the pressure. Should I move on or should I wait for him?

Update: I told him that it was over but he kept threatening us. I am so frustrated now. my new boyfriend doesn't want me anymore. And I just can't move on. There are many guys who want me, I have even tried going for other dates, but I just cant. I need advise    2 months ago

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Shack (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
Why not ask him what he really want you now as you are now his ex but his girl.Let hjim tell you exaltly he wants you do and see whether he wants you back or what.becvause I just can't see why he is on your nerves so hard.the love I know is not painful and still cares about wans feelings when wan is out of it.All the best girl.
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Shack (Age:18 to 24)      When: 2 months ago
what's wrong with your ex.why not resolve the problem with your ex.For you to be happy.you must let your ex know you are moving on and ready to date this new found prince so he should stop trampling with your happinesss.remeber its ur right to be happy!
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Question Asker I asked my ex about it and he said that he would not rest until we (me and my new boyfriend) broke up. Now we have broken up and he's happy. From a guy's point of view, what should I do? - 2 months ago
 

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Pallas (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
This is a really hard position for both of you to be in. I was in the same situation once and on some level, I felt guilty for "letting" my stalker push away my new man. BUT, my new boyfriend was there for me the whole time and wasn't intimidated by the stalker.

I think you should give the whole situation some time. Do you still talk to your ex? Have you asked your new boyfriend what exactly he feels "pressured" by? Has your ex physically threatened him? Is there a chance that your new man thinks you might go back to your ex if he chases you enough? The bottom line is that if he wants to be with you, he'll work it out, no matter how complicated your life is at the moment. The good news is that your boyfriend will back off. Eventually. Good luck!
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Question Asker My new boyfriend says that he has given up. But he still loves me and cares about me so much. he keeps giving me mixed signals. I am so confused now - 2 months ago
 
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