I posted a question about my ex before but he tried to contact me after 3 months and we spoke for a while but now he's disapeard again. I want to be freinds again and I want him to meet up with me so he can see that he can be comfortable around me and jsut be freinds! He is the one who got in contact again so why ignore me when I respond?
He broke up with me because my dad was strict and I had not been in a relationship in a whil so I was nervous of how h woudl react so my bad realy but it ended on a bad note were we never spoke for 3 months! - 2 months ago
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Hmmmm. maybe he contacted you, but then decided against it because it hurt him to talk to you or something. being friends is very hard in my opinion, because feelings always re-surface. My advice would be to be patient, and just let him know that you want to hang out, When he is ready. But Please, don't send any false signals or anything........unless you have an ulterior motive. - 2 months ago
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Hey thankx your answers very helpful! can I ask if you have any suggestions of what kinda thing I could say to let him no I jsut wana be freinds? - 2 months ago
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It's going to be very hard. I have no way of telling if he is still interested, but he will turn all attempts at friendship into the possibility of a relationship if he wants to. (trust me, I've been there :/ )...it all kinda depends on how along the breakup trail you both are. I don't think he should even be hanging out with you until he is completely over you. It may seem cool, but it will hurt him soooooooo much. I would just say, "We should hang as friends sometime, ya know and catch up" - 2 months ago
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But don't say I miss you, or I love you, or anything like that. Just say like, haven't talked in a while, what's up? Ugh I have to be honest....I have never been able to work it out with an Ex and be friends. Watch the Video on this site about it. That does a pretty good job I think. - 2 months ago
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