A really good friend of mine got together last year and we fell for each other pretty fast and he said he missed me because we grew apart. We started drifting again because we were both on and off with our feelings about each other. I ended up going on a date and wasn't feeling it so I texted him and I still thought about him.
He apologized and told me he was kinda seeing someone aka hooking up. He told me he didn't think it's going to last about 4 times in our 3 hour convo because he still thinks about me but I don't deserve what he did to me. He kept talking and apologizing and making up excuses.
Why is he with this girl if he doesn't know how he feels or if he likes her enough? Plus the other day he's been seeing me out having a good and I think it's really affecting him because the last time he came out and kept touching me and grabbing my face and when I yelled at him my friend goes "tell him you love him" and I'm was like noooo and then he was like its because she hates me. Do you think he just doesn't like me enough and he wants to test his feelings? And what should I do to make him mad, because every time a guy asks for my number or I'm talking to people I see him staring. So should that do the trick?
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meangirl101
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
Well I think he doesn't know what he wants and he really doesn't seem like he's even good for you maybe you should listen to your heart and see what it tells you...but it is really hard to listen to your heart because all your feelings are telling you to do this or do that just right down what you want... do you want to make him mad? huh do you wanna hurt him like he hurt you? honey please don't stoop to that level...